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Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 05/20/2013 - 3:49pm

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How do you feel about it?

I have never cut my SDs hair and have no plans to. Dh takes them to a salon regularly and they wash their hair daily.

If they came over here with lice in their hair when they only came over EOW, I'd have taken pics to save for court and/or send the pics to CPS on bm. In fact, I did have to take pics to send to CPS on bm, of their hair and unexplained wounds on their bodies. It helps them to see that these kids are being truly neglected.

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Submitted by sixteensmom on Mon, 05/20/2013 - 4:12pm

I wouldn't dream of it and I'd be livid if my kids SM cut their hair. I'd be livid if their dad cut their hair too! Smile

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Submitted by Starla on Mon, 05/20/2013 - 4:15pm

Well guess if the step parent gives a good hair cut and the bio parent/spouse gives permission, the other bio has no say. Only need permission of one bio parent when the parents goes their own ways. Personally, I won't cut my SD's hair but that is bc I only shave heads. like you, we take SD to the salon too.

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Submitted by Starla on Mon, 05/20/2013 - 4:25pm

Been there to the point of going to an Urgent Care app. Can only use so much medication on young children is why. Of all things..Downy Fabric Softener once a week for ten minutes prevented eggs from sticking to the scalp. Bye Bye to head lice!

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Mon, 05/20/2013 - 4:21pm

I am truly shocked that so far, DH's kid hasn't shown up with lice.

That being said.......

Due to the fact that Uberskank is cuckoo for cocoa puffs, I wouldn't touch DH's kid's head with a 10-foot pair of scissors.

On the flip side, she has butchered the kid's hair on multiple occasions, allowed her to dye the lovely brunette color to blond, red and black. DH's kid has a nose piercing as well. Uberskank did not consult DH on any of this.