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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Fri, 04/12/2013 - 12:20pm

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Fuck my weekend

Fdh must've really laid it on thick with SD's. SD15 is spending the night tonight (She hasn't spent the night since Christmas and before that it was summer) and sd21 and her 2 brats are coming over tomorrow to visit for the day. I love the grandkids as much as I can but they are always sick, dirty fingernails, and I know they don't get their hands washed- just EW they gross me out I don't like their germs or them touching my stuff with their sticky fingers and they always leave a mess.

I got shit to do-I'm sure I won't be able to avoid them 100% but atleast 90!

UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Sad

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Submitted by TASHA1983 on Fri, 04/12/2013 - 12:28pm

AMEN ECHO!!! ^^^ I SECOND THAT....when I actually have a house of my own...whenever that might be ...ugh Sad

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Fri, 04/12/2013 - 1:36pm

yes, I agree. Unfortunately it's FDH's house, but I still have a say bc I live there too. Last time they were over they broke a tall glass vase type thing that held a candle that my mom gave me. I was very upset but I wasn't there when it happened. We have talked about in therapy that his kids need to respect it as my home as well and my things that are in it. We will see if FDH follows through- i'm not holding my breath but I have anxiety about this weekend now. I'm telling him he better watch them if he's not gonna make sd21 watch them AND he better clean up after them if he's not gonna make them do it. I'm not cleaning before or after and I sure the hell ain't cooking for them either.

*sigh*

It's always something

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Fri, 04/12/2013 - 3:47pm

LOL I can just picture it - the skids come in, sit down and start watching tv and here's SM with a can of Lysol spraying down every surface all around them! LMAO

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Fri, 04/12/2013 - 4:40pm

SD21 4 year old came out of the bathroom ALONE and said "I got poop on my hand" :jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop:

I had a fit and called his mom in to clean him up, ripped FDH a new one and made him help me bleach EVERYTHING- and yes I did help bc I had to make sure it was done right!!!

Freaking disgusting- sorry I don' have patience for other peoples kids........

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Submitted by krazykaty on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 12:11pm

I asked the skids dr if they could be put on antibiotics before coming to visit the baby and me in the hospital. I had to settle for DH picking them up, taking them to our house to shower and put on clean clothes. I still make them shower and put on clean clothes before touching the baby.

BM and her newest husband smoke these awful cigars in the house and the kids stink to high heavens when they come over. No way am I letting DD breath that!