BM APOLOGIZED
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ok I may be speaking too soon but I'm just glad BM has finally woken up. She added me on FB less than a month ago and my MIL went to her house to see SD (5) yesterday and spent the night....BUT this morning BM msged me saying she knows we have trouble getting along and she is living her life 'according to God now' and felt she should apologize. Although she didnt say what for she said 'I'm sorry' lol ok I think this is just funny especially when ppl out of nowhere become super religious and self righteous but it may be real?? What are your thoughts? Either way I'm glad to be drama free for the present moment.
(Married to DH for 3.5 years)
BM and DH broke up 4 yrs ago lolhttp://www.steptalk.org/images/smileys/wink.png
SD is 5
Eeeshk!!! In my personal
Eeeshk!!! In my personal experience, never trust the bitch. Ever. EVER. She may be temporarily "saved" and feeling all come to Jesus, but, the odds say she will revert back to her old ways. Now, she COULD really change, but, most likely, it is not so. She is feeling momentary guilt and is trying to free herself from that weight by apologizing to you, it is a selfish maneuver. Treat her as if she were a drug addict fresh out of rehab...hope for the best but expect a nasty, rolling in her own vomit relapse sooner or later.
^^ Yep.^^ BM & I came to a
BM & I came to a point where we agreed that it was better for the skids if we stopped fighting with each other & tried to work as a team. We were fb friends, shared pics of skids, texted one another about skids occasionally. DH & I even invited her to our holiday events. We were *trying* to be nice. BM could only handle so much niceness before her Judge Doom started to show. There might as well have been twitching and other involuntary tics coming from that woman each time she had to be nice. It ended after about a year. I found out that she was being a two-faced bitch & running back to my MIL (with whom we have zero contact with) and providing her with all of the juicy gossip BM made up about us. I don't tolerate fake people so she was deleted & blocked from fb, no longer invited into our home, and is now given the cold shoulder. DH & I were WAY more helpful to her than most XH & their new wives are to the XW. Stupid bitch bit the hand that fed her. Sadly, that statement is literal. I had to buy her groceries on more than one occasion.
Don't. Trust. The. BM.
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damn, yeah shes all buddy
damn, yeah shes all buddy buddy with my MIL too and MIL loves gossip....I played along and said I forgive BM but we shall see how this pans out lol no trusting her
Pssh. BM is more than
Pssh. BM is more than buddy-buddy with MIL since we severed ties. She LIVES with her now. The crazy bitches can have each other. I'm done with their crap.
Agreed
Remember the old I am good
Remember the old I am good enough to forgive but not stupid enough to trust motto.
BM has been uber religious for over 20 years. Lives at her weird tongue speaking church, plays light Christian music constantly, etc. etc. But is still at heart the biggest bitch in the world. I truly believe she thinks she can do anything as long as she prays for forgiveness the next day - lie, cheat on her DH, etc.
But I do know Christian people who are truly wonderful people. But I suspect they were good people even before they were saved.
i think its a load of crap
i think its a load of crap too lol shes in this out of nowhere i find overly religious ppl to be the ultimate sinners/liars
There is a huge difference
There is a huge difference between walking the walk and talking the talk.
The skids BM has found Jesus only bc she found a boyfriend that is Christian. She and the skids watch Power Hour on TV, yup, thats their church. SMH. DH and I, on the other hand, have a deep faith and are not allowed to bring the skids to church bc she wants to be the one to introduce them to God. We've watched Power Hour with the boys and afterwards try to discuss the message. SSstb10 says its all about money. SS13 doesn't retain the message. We try but am not stepping on a land mine put out by BM.
oh great, now shes liking my
oh great, now shes liking my statuses too! We'll see how long the 'niceness' lasts!!!
I would politely thank her
I would politely thank her but don't trust. Keep her at a distance.
Our BM did that before. she called FDH one day out of the blue and was like, "I wanted to let you know I got saved last night and God has made me realize I haven't been the nicest person and I want us to get along."
Pssh that last about a month and then she stopped going to church and turned back into the jerk she always was.
I hope maybe your BM will be different but I wouldn't count on it.
believe me I won't hold my
believe me I won't hold my breath. My response was 'I forgive you, I apologize as well. you take care too.'
(She told me she felt she should apologize then said 'so im sorry'...take care! although she didnt say what for.) I don't EVER say I'm sorry lol
Should I feel some type of
Should I feel some type of way that my MIL spent the night at BM's house this weekend, by the way? Or since thats not really affecting me should I not worry about it?
thank you, they obviously are
thank you, they obviously are I mean MIL doesnt spend the night at our house (nor is she welcome to) lol. I will definitely have a silent tongue around both...
^^^LMFAO! I was thinking
^^^LMFAO! I was thinking more of throwing a bowling ball at BM...but your idea is better! LOL
LMAO that is funny, wish I
LMAO that is funny, wish I could I wouldve thrown one a LONG time ago.
I have a couple that I'm
I have a couple that I'm willing to part with since I can't bowl anymore (due to my bad knees) and BM's head would be a perfect resting spot!
BM's head looks like a
BM's head looks like a bowling ball with stringy hair glued on.