Hello
I have made a thread before about the situation were in and that SD is so alienated that she doesn't want to come over anymore so DH decided to just see her on his time for 1-2 hours outside of our house. He's been doing this for a few weeks now and its been very peaceful for everyone.

My question is how would you feel if your partner does that? Do some of your parners see their kids like this and not bring them around? I feel that this is the best for both sides. Were more peaceful and SD probably too. Also by her not coming over the drama will be none because a lot of the times when shes here we end up the bad ones that "mistreat" her, make her follow rules and share with her siblings etc and according to her thats being mean to her. So right now her crazy mom is not being fed with BS and theres 0 drama.

Im sure DH will eventually want to bring SD around again because he's not spending much time with her right now and also its probably not good for siblings like this to be a part from each-other altho our kids are little (2y/o and almost 1y/o) and they don't really understand yet whats going on.