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SD15 is back- spoke to soon

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 12:31pm

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Great- I knew it was too good to be true

The last month without her has been AWESOME! Apparently, she texted DH and said she wants to build a relationship with him (?) and that she's coming home tonight. Fuck fuck fuck wonder what she wants????

I'm keeping busy as possible and hopefully she wont stay too long. I'm gonna sit and watch all the issues and all the drama unfold while me and my daughter go do fun things bc thats exactly what happens everytime she's over. DH is gonna try to make me feel bad for leaving but guess what? I'm leaving his ass at home too bc I'm not taking that ungrateful, selfish little biotch anywhere.

I feel like leaving town with BD this weekend and turning my phone off! Too bad I have to watch my niece and got to 2 birthday parties! Fuck fuck fuck

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 1:27pm

OH SHIT! That's not good. I just have a feeling my SD14 will be doing this soon too so hearing that yours is back is discomforting.

Keep busy and definitely go out with your daughter. I don't even get that luxury if my SD comes back cuz my daughter lives out of state.

I wish you the best and am sending you good juju to make it through. Hopefully your DH sees right thru everything and welcomes her back on HIS terms, not hers!

SO SORRY!!!! UGH I'd be beside myself and know I will when the day comes for me...

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 3:06pm

I hope she doesn't come back, but these conniving assholes always have something up their sleeves. Fake sick or something if she does, sorry your daughter is out of state Sad
Desperate times call for desperate measures }:)

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 2:52pm

Yes, Captain Morgan and Valium will be my friends. I feel super depressed right now. And DH is freakin happy bc he gets to see her and SHE wanted to come, not him asking her. Fuck my Life

Everyone take a shot or drink some wine or somethin for me bc I am feelin too sorry for myself right now!!! LOL

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Submitted by Frustr8d1 on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 3:04pm

Oh that really blows. Definitely go out and leave for the weekend. My uncle's BD didn't contact him for years, then one day out of the blue she wanted to go live with him and "build a relationship with him." He was so happy that BD finally wanted him in her life. Of course the SM was devastated. Come to find out, my uncle's daughter's BM lost her job & house so they were all being kicked out with no place to go.

It's completely wrong for kids to contact their parents only when they need something. I will have wine and a shot for you! Go out with your BD between the birthday parties.

So sorry.

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 3:20pm

Thanks guys, really does make me feel a little better knowing others know the misery I feel when she's around!!!

It's guaranteed she's got alterior motives so we will see what she comes up with now.......He's picking her up soon, I'm picking up hours at my other job- won't be home till 9:30 and my girl can come with me if she wants so she's not stuck with the asshole too! Atleast this is a start to my escape plan!

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 3:34pm

Funny quick story for ya: My DD lives in MI and visits me in CO during summer. She texted me from the airplane just after it landed here and said "Is SD14 with you?" and I texted back "no" and she replied "Good, I can actually get OFF the plane now!"

They're the same age (mine is 6 mos older) but worlds apart. SD is immature, short, whiny, needy, clingy, DUMB, drama queen. She's built like a boy, wears babyish clothes and just looks frumpy. Mine is tall, blonde, carries herself well, intelligent, independent and very articulate. Most people confuse SD for being a 10-11 yr old and my DD for being 16-17. Worlds apart!

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 3:45pm

LOL, like mother like daughter! She's no fool, funny how kids the same age are sooooo totally different in soooo many ways!

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Submitted by Frustr8d1 on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 3:40pm

Funny, RedWings. Last weekend a guy thought my SD9 was "4 or 5" and thought my BD2 was "3 or 4." My SD is also "immature, short, scrawny, whiny, needy, clingy, DUMB, drama queen. She's built like a boy, wears babyish clothes and just looks frumpy." LOL

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 3:49pm

SD15 dresses like a little slut, tries to look way older than what she is but seriously acts like a 5 year old. Temper tantrums and everything. Her sister and mother think she's bipolar- no kidding

I'm sure she will be pregnant in no time, the school has already had to talk to her about wearing dresses,shorts and skirts right above the knee bc her clothes are inappropriate. How embarrassing. I was eavesdropping and heard her tell her sister that she knows dad won't let her leave the house thatw ay so she just puts it in her backpack....I told FDH and he dropped her off at school I BET he didn't check her bag..........Fuckin dumbass

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 3:53pm

My dumbass SD can beat that - she lost her virginity at 13 oh and gave her boyfriend a BJ! At her mother's home!!! While her mom was at work. During spring break, and her mother said she could have her boyfriend over as long as another friend was there too! HA!

And we caught her "sexting" him on DH'S PHONE! How stupid is that? Oh and she conned my daughter out of her phone the one night she did stay with us while my daughter was visiting this summer and called her boyfriend and had phone sex with him! My daughter was like "get out" and kicked her out of their shared bedroom (that SD likes to say is "hers") because she sounded like a porn star!

Same girl who tells her boyfriend "my p*ssy hurts" when she's on her period...SKANK

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 3:58pm

OMFG!!!!!! What a SKANK!!!!!!!! :jawdrop:

She's obviously a F'n dumbass too and has no shame! On DH's phone and in front of your daughter?! WTF?????!!!!!!!

Ewwww I wouldn't even want her on my lawn let alone my house, she's probley got STD's

And seriously I am not a prude but really? 13 and a blow job???? I'm still stingy with those and didn't even know what it was at 13- I heard the term but really didn't know what it was. What a whore. I'm sorry for you and DH

Atleast she makes your daughter shine even more like the angel she is Blum 3

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Thu, 09/27/2012 - 4:06pm

No shit right? And when DH confronted her about it all, she was flippant and basically said "all the girls are doing it"...HUH? My daughter was like that is BULLSHIT mom, she's crazy.

I agree with you. I didn't know what BJ's were at 13. Hell, I didn't even try to do that till I was married! And then was like "yeah, this isn't much fun"...different story now that I'm with my DH but yeah, at that age, I was SO not even into that crap!

My daughter isn't an angel by far, but she's respectful of herself, her body and adults. She's definitely not like SD at all.

Last summer when SD was still 12 (her bday is in aug) I allowed my daughter to have a wine cooler at a friend's party. Just ONE. SD whined and whined to her dad that since "T" got one, why couldn't SHE have one? He gave in and gave her a half of his. Half. Like we're talking 6-8oz. She stumbled around acting drunk, like an idiot until I told him to take her ass home. Then she called BM and said "dad and Mel let me and T get drunk"

Yeah, stupid little bitch never got to do another "adult" thing around us again.