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Submitted by Butterflykisses... on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 9:49am

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Hey guys! I am back on this site and have so much to share after being out of the picture here for almost a year. Wink

I had BS1, A year ago and it has been pure hell. IF you think that having your own child together will bring DH closer and back the BM off, WRONG. BM is INSANE and SS8 is rude as he**. I've literally had BM WALKING IN this house trying to snoop around and saying things like, "Well, this IS HIS HOME."... :jawdrop: Um, no it is not and it certainly is not your home anymore either. KNOCK ON THE DOOR.

BM trying to be my bestest "bud" :sick: CALLING me while DH is gone to work talking crap about there marriage that was over, 7 YEARS AGO. Come on lady! BM remarried a wealthy doctor and is bragging about how he pays all of their bills and that the CS is "spending" money while we struggle like hell to buy food and diapers? I WISH I had that kind of money to spend on poor BS1 . Let me tell you, having a baby is BS. You will feel like a single mom and struggle with resentment and have to watch YOUR child stand back as bratty stepkids MARCH into your home and demand that THEERE "DAAAA-DEEEE" cuddles with them and watches them kick a ball. SS8 is never around really and I do not like how he just waltzes in and out of BS1's life so seldom. WHY is BM bugging the crap out of us knowing that there is a baby here, asking MY DH to go see SS8 "act like a fool at karate?" PLEASE!!!

Yes, BM, You are indeed white trash. You have two baby daddys and have mine on a leash of guilt, the other one for some unknown reason is supporting you and your son? WHAT? Have some respect for that man?! Jeez* so much to vent about.

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Submitted by Butterflykisses... on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 10:00am

...And YES, :sick: BM on this planet;

My son is beautiful and you know it and it makes you so jealous. I'm not stupid here. This gal has 2 decades worth of being a mom. When you "feel" like you need a "break", you think you can just bust into this home, bugging us with phone calls, emails, etc. I'm NOT your personal babysitter. Being a good mom is not free time. I should know, i've been doing this a lot longer than yourself; without a "break". }:) tough shi*.

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Submitted by Butterflykisses... on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 10:45am

Oh, no way! Everyone was laying the old mantra of; "We have to be civil." hahahaha

Translated: Everyone else but golden uterus, shall be miserable and suck it up for the sake of a random VIP visit, by prince nasty.

Umm, no. BM was STALKING me driving down MY block, and on FB, no doubt. I have cut that winch off, and she knows it. Not a peep. Glad I got her to talk her crap though, she is probably scared I'll tell DH. }:) }:) }:)

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Submitted by majka on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 10:38am

Welcome back Smile Thanks for the honesty on what it is like to have a child in a step situation... I appreciate it because sometimes the thought crosses my mind.

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Submitted by Butterflykisses... on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 10:47am

Always a blessing to have a child BUT it is not for everybody. I feel and am mostly a single mom here because of the step and CS sitch. Focusing on my lil one helps. Wink

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Submitted by Butterflykisses... on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 10:54am

Wink

There are now "NO TRESPASSING" signs outside on all fences and gates, courtesy of DH!!! }:) }:) }:)

Yes, I'm bad. Wink

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 11:01am

Awesome! I'm glad my stepdevil's BM doesn't want to talk or get to know me. At first I was like "But, wouldn't she WANT to know the person her child spends every other week with?"

After reading what everyone else here goes through with their skids BM's, I'm thankful I don't have a thing to do with her!

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Submitted by Butterflykisses... on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 11:19am

IF you have a baby together, the BM magically appears again, trying to make your DH feel "guilty." All of a sudden, BM is concerned that prince nasty "knows" :? who his real father is. I think prince nasty gets it dear. Isn't it quite rude though to remarry to someone who is literally paying all of your bills, to just swing "in and out" of one daddy home to another? What if I did that to her or DH?

"Hon, (insert name) is coming over. Can you be nice to him while he walks around the house freely?" It would mean everything for the well-being of (insert SK name here).

This crap is not natural. I struggle with feeling like I am a part of a harem, at times. icky feeling. :sick:

I'm sorry but, SS8 is not my kid and I will never love him like my own. Like BM would love my son the same? hahahaha