wish sd would freakin go away for good!
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there are many ways to take this statement, use ur imagination.
maybe because i am sick i am making a huge deal of this. r maybe im just fed the fuck up.
i went grocery shopping. sd asked for a specific ice-tea and spacific skittles. no biggie. wally world didnt have either, and since i had to stop for gas i went in and purchased the skittles and a diff flavor ice tea cause they didnt have what she asked for.
she got mad. im like seriously?
so....i dumped the ice tea out and gave the skittles to the neighbor's kid. told sd to kiss my ass. bf's mad idgaf.
so that is my immature-i-fuckin-hate-sd-wish-she-would-have-been-aborted-moment. 
have a nice day.
What is she 3 years old? And
What is she 3 years old? And your BF is mad at YOU?? For going out of your way to get his princess some CRAP she wanted?
OMG, what a jackass. No wonder Sd is growing up to be a poster child for the Entitlement Generation.
I honestly don't know why you
I honestly don't know why you keep doing stuff for her? So much less stress to not giving her wants any consideration. Sorry she and your BF are acting like asshats.
i didnt go out of my way this
i didnt go out of my way this time, it was part of the grocery list, but yeah idk why i do maybe cause im an idiot.
she is 13. he's mad at me
she is 13. he's mad at me cause of what i did in response to her stupidness and also for texting him that i want her gone that i never wanted her in my life.
Okay, I maybe sort of get him
Okay, I maybe sort of get him being a little upset about the text (maybe he felt like you were attacking his kid?), but him getting upset by your response is crazy. She acts like a spoiled brat after you've gone out of your way to do something for her and you're the one who's wrong? No. She's old enough to know better.
I've always thought how id be
I've always thought how id be screwed if SD ever got abducted. Id find it real hard to act all heart broken and concerned in front of the news cameras, talking about how much we love her and what a great kid was is and how we just want her home. I would be in cuffs by the end of day one. (dont get me wrong, i would never want anything bad to happen to her, I just wouldn't miss her)
^^^LMAO. I think most of
^^^LMAO. I think most of us feel the same way. On the outside we would be forlorn and depressed, giving our spouses all the love and support they need. On the inside, we'd all be dancing around like Snoopy. }:)
OMG I think this too!! I
OMG I think this too!! I would end up in jail between not being able to be sad and all this shit I post on here, I would be on death row!! I would never be able to pretend!!!
hahhahhahaha!!
hahhahhahaha!!
Seriously! Thank God for
Seriously! Thank God for lie-detector tests! We will be able to pass with flying colors because we did not harm a hair on the little darling's heads but we certainly would be the number one suspect since we would be the ones whose live actually IMPROVED with the little shits gone......
I agree with twopines. I
I agree with twopines. I wouldn't do stuff for her anymore. Disengage and let BF reap what he has sowed. He and BM screwed SD up by not parenting her and other choices they've made. They are the ones who created this mess. If she asks you to do anything for her, tell her to ask her dad. If BF asks you to do anything for SD, like give her transportation, tell him he'll either have to do it himself or find someone else to help. If either of them ask why, say calmly, "I don't do things for people who treat me rudely."
When SD15 asks me to get her
When SD15 asks me to get her something from the food store I don't do it anymore. She can ask DH and he can do it. I have had enough of her shit too. I wish she would move to another planet!!
Peanutand sons....that is too
Peanutand sons....that is too funny! I'd be screwed if my skids ever got abducted or killed also.
i think my tears would be
i think my tears would be tears of joy and releif...man, we are a sad bunch lol, but whatever gets us thru the day! lol
haha! i had an immature
haha! i had an immature moment when i picked up what i thought was my pictures from some film i dropped off to be developed. i open the envelope and see nothing but sd's mug and a few of her friends. the sneaky brat stuck her film in with mine so i would pay for it to be developed for her. i ripped the pictures up and threw them under the laundry soap rack at the store. oh well. at some point, enough is enough.
Good one! Call it a "bitch
Good one! Call it a "bitch tax" - that is what I call it when I tell them to pick up their crap and, after the 10th time they don't, it goes in the garbage. Ooops - another thing "bitch taxed!" }:)
i bitch taxed a bunch of
i bitch taxed a bunch of clothes she left laying all over, too. you would think a 16 year old would know better than to leave her underwear and other things just laying around on the dining room floor. nope. so i stopped bitching and just gathered them up and waited to see how long it would take her to notice she had so many clothes missing. she never asked and moved back with her mom. so i washed them up and gave them away! BITCH TAX! }:)
My dogs love to go in SD's
My dogs love to go in SD's room and bring up her socks and dirty underwear. Yes its gross. She doesn't come to get them so in the trash they go. Seriously I don't know how she has any socks or underwear left!!
im pretty much against
im pretty much against abortion as well, but i was just angry today lol. but i do think, just like u, that my sd should have been given up for adoption as hr bios really do suck.
I think it is awesome that
I think it is awesome that you gave the skittles to the neighbor kid, LOL!! Let her dad be mad, he shouldn't be raising such a bratty kid anyway.
OMG....I may be new to this
OMG....I may be new to this forum, but hell I'm NOT new to a ungrateful 15 year old punk SD that has attitude written all over her face 99% of the time.
It would have taken all my willpower not to splash the tea in her face and walk away. As for the text, it was pretty harsh but I've been raising my THREE SD's since they were 18mos, 3yrs, and 7yrs, and for the most part, it just doesn't ever get better. We're down to 2 in the house and it will be a miracle if the 15yr old makes it to 18.... cuz most of the time I wanna throttle her!!!!
I too have often thought how
I too have often thought how much easier it would be if the skids would just disappear but then I immediately feel bad for even thinking such a thing, they just infuriate me so much, espesh SS, he was given a second chance and he laid his hands on my baby AGAIN, I really don't care if I never see him again.
you just made me flash back
you just made me flash back to the time my son kept refusing to turn down the radio in the car. I'd turn it down, he'd turn it back up. Finally, I told him don't do it again. if you do I'm throwing that cd out the window. Well, it took him about 30 seconds..he was blaring it again. I waited a few mins. Ejected the cd, rolled down my window and pitched it. Kept driving.
He was so mad at me.
lol
Good for you for standing
Good for you for standing your ground.
I would take the other posters ideas to heart and not buy anything for her again.
I might've been liable to eat the skittles in front of her, or make her drink the iced tea anyway!