What is WRONG with these women?!
Obviously I have bigger issues with DH right now, but I just have to vent about BM AGAIN. What is wrong with some of these women? She refuses to work more than 30 hours a week - she literally stated in court paperwork that she wouldn't work more so that DH had to pay less. They have been divorced for two years and instead of getting more education (she has an AA and is a part time secretary), she has chosen to sit on her butt and do nothing. Now, she is on Facebook telling everyone that she has $100 to her name for the month and the utilities may be shut off (that was last month). Now this month, she is telling everyone, not once, but twice that she needs an Xmas tree and does anyone have one for her?! I loved that no one is even responding, except one poster who reminded her that she lives in the mountains surrounded by pine forests, lol!
BM always talks about how strong she is and such a survivor - she practically has a chip on her shouldder about it, but won't get a freaking part time Xmas position to buy her own tree? However, she does have time to be on the school Booster Club so she can boss the other ladies around - all while her 12 year old son is literally getting all D's and F's in school. WTF?
My only suggestion is to
My only suggestion is to block her FB profile...defriend her then set your profile to private where only your FB friends can see it. It won't cure her stupidity, but it'll hopefully help to reduce the stress and drama in your life.
I bet most of the crap she's
I bet most of the crap she's posting is a lie. She can't come right out and beg for what she wants. She has to make her suckers (I mean friends) feel sorry for her first.
This is so my DH's ex! Except
This is so my DH's ex! Except she won't work at ALL!!!! And she's always trying to get crap from everybody trying to play the victim when everything is a LIE! Plus, she spouts all this Christian stuff on FB but then turns around a lies her butt off. Does absolutely nothing to help her daughters. It's so frustrating and pathetic.
My husband's ex is the same
My husband's ex is the same way. She will only work part time and refuses full time positions when offered. She asks for support earlier all the time and is bad with money. I also get support from my daughter's father, but I actually hate relying on it. I would rather not take his money, but for now I do rely on it. I work full time. I went back to college a couple of years ago to get a better paying job. Your man's ex relies on the money. She knows she gonna get it so why should she bother getting a better job, that is what she thinks probably. I wonder what these women are going to do once the kids are over 18 and not getting support anymore....living in a box on the street? I look to the future and know the support for me will run out eventually. Also what if the ex loses his job and cannot pay as much? I feel you on your issue....have a great day and try not to let these issues ruin your day!
Take care!
Exactly Tuff Cookie! DD17
Exactly Tuff Cookie!
DD17 will be 18 in less than 6 months - did she think this was going to last forever? Meanwhile, she has told the skids that they are losing their house, that she has to shut of the utilities, that she is going on welfare, and she is going to the foodbank. They had a $300,000 life insurance policy on DH for the kids, which she let lapse by not paying the mortgage (it was through the mortgage company) so if he dies, they are screwed. GET A JOB, jeez!
My bf's ex works in a job
My bf's ex works in a job where she can do "cash" jobs and not declare them to the tax dept or child support which increases BF's CS payments, then has the audacity to complain to BF's mum (MiL) that she is broke (but can afford to go to Thailand for 10 days) so MiL then asks BF if he can help out....... AH I DONT EFFING THINK SO!!!
Why would anyone air their
Why would anyone air their problems on facebook? What a loser!!! My favorite was when she (BM) thought I liked her and told me in front of others that she was "tired of working" and "needed a break" so she was going to get herself fired that day (this while dropping her son off at my house with a cup of cheetos for breakfast). A year later, she figured out that at the time I was doing my best to tolerate her (after I pretty much told her that she sucks at life/parenting), and told DH that she had to get a job before "little miss perfect turned her in for taking advantage of the system." It's those little moments that keep me going....LMAO!!!!