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The mess...

maylanna74's picture

I feel so tired of picking up after their mess and cooking for them every night... my husband does not want to change
anything because well... it's hard to change them..they just won't. Their bedrooms are disgusting and they can't even make soup. I married my husband 6 months ago.. my step kids are 17 and 18 I love them too! I am just tired of picking up after them..any thoughts?

Lauren1438's picture

I recommenced that you read the book Stepmonster. Also talk to your DH. You have to do what is best for you and your marriage. Some people on this site have had a lot of luck with disengaging.