How do you trust SS after he goes thru your underware drawer?
SS16 found where I hide my prescription medicine, in my underware drawer, yuck...and took out the bottles...took a picture and sent them to his BM. WHAT WAS HE DOING IN MY UNDERWARE DRAWER? I keep them there because last year their was a little incident where he got caught smoking pot and buying pills at school, so I thought no way will he be in here. But guess I was wrong. The bad part is that there were old empty bottles in there so he lined them up and then took a picture, and sent that to his mother also. I have been going to the same doctor for 16 years for something that he cannot even spell and he is pretty much calling me out? I am so pissed. I have no idea how to even trust him anymore. Now my meds are in the gun safe but how do I live with someone I cannot trust? Does he need a bank statement also? A blood sample? I don't know how much longer I can do this!
Leave the bottles there and
Leave the bottles there and fill them with laxative pills.
What is DH doing about
What is DH doing about this?
What is his excuse for taking invading your privacy and sending pictures to his mother?
Seriously, what a dirty little creep. This may sound slighty overboard but if some greasy teen went through my underwear drawer and had been handling my underwear I would feel violated, sexually. Its a bit sick. :jawdrop: :sick:
Are you sure he only took pics of your bottle and not of your underwear too?
I think I would 1) wait till he came over next time and then when hes downstairs/out rifle through HIS prized possession, take pictures and post them on fb and humiliate him in front of his friends (serve the little sleaze right) 2)expect DH to severely punish him or my personal fave 3) show him where the door is and tell him the welcome mat has just been withdrawn.
What is he trying to prove?
What is he trying to prove? Does his mom claim that you are a pill head and he is trying to help her back up that statement? I would be on the lookout for something.
Was wondering the same as
Was wondering the same as MamaBecky actually.
I would be suspecting some kind of assault on your good name, rumours or something at least...bunch of saddos
Is there ANY chance you abuse
Is there ANY chance you abuse pills? (No judgement, just a question.) Are SS and BM conspiring to bring you up on something? Also, why would you have "old medicine" bottles still...
My SS stole a pair of HIS MOTHER'S underwear to jack off with. Talk about EWWWWWW.
Anyway, I'd get with DH and call out SS. What a little creep.
BTW, how did you find out he did this?
I should add...I'm not
I should add...I'm not knocking the pills. I have two chronic illnesses and my medicine cabinet resembles that of an elderly person.
Thanks, I just threw up my
Thanks, I just threw up my GORP. :sick:
Don't even ASK what happened
Don't even ASK what happened with his sister...
You can thank Disney for this
You can thank Disney for this nonsense.
I have a thyroid issue and
I have a thyroid issue and have about ten empty thyroid bottles in my dresser drawers. It's an easy way for me to track how my medication amount has changed and to see which way I'm going. So, I understand the empty bottle thing.
My main concern is how DH is reacting to this situation. If I were you, I'd be PISSED if DH didn't take this seriously. THis is a complete and unforgivable violation of your privacy by both SS and BM. Neither of them have any freaking business in your underwear drawer OR your medicine cabinet.
You should seriously think about setting up a nanny cam, and i fDH doesn't support you, I'd do it behind his back. That is YOUR PERSONAL PRIVATE SPACE and SS should not be putting his nose in your business.
By the way, I'm also curious about how you found out he did this.
Oh, another idea. If you're
Oh, another idea. If you're an open minded "who cares" sort of person, I would fill that drawer with dildos or something and shock the sh!t out of that little perv next time.
Or, for a more mellow approach, you could always write him a note that says something along the lines of "Dear SS, STAY THE F*CK OUT OF MY DRAWER YOU DIRTY LITTLE BASTARD"
That might work.
As for trusting him again, don't. He doesn't deserve it.
This one has my vote. Also
This one has my vote.
Also you could tell him that the camera on his phone sends a copy to your phone. And would he like to explain why he took the pictures. And make the little deviant stand there and explain himself. I get so sick of adults who just accept "I don, know"
This person would not be
This person would not be allowed in my home again.
He lives with us full time so
He lives with us full time so I am freaked out... I found the pics on his phone because he lost it because of grades and I am nosey...and yes his Mom is probably trying to set me up. there is no chance of me having issues with pills...I have been on them for a long time and they rotate them so I am never on the same thing for more than acouple of months....I am SO UPSET! AND IT IS SO GROSS. DH says he might kick him out....but he always says he is going to do something and then NEVER does it. I am so pissed that MY SPACE was invaded....I am so pissed that NOTHING is MINE even my underware drawer.....My entire family has lupus fibro Scleroderma...ect and I am just following this pattern in my health....And really I would not care what is Mother is doing but I have a 6 year old and messing with me messes with him and that really pisses me off......F7%^k!
This is disturbing. I would
This is disturbing. I would say something to this affect. "After confiscating your phone, it came to my attention that you went through my underwear drawer. This is both a violation of my privacy and a breech of trust. Since you are not trustworthy I will be putting a keyed lock on my bedroom. You aren't allowed to be in there anymore."
And i'd CC that to the BM and let her know that you hope she wasn't encouraging her boy to root through your delicates, and if she has any questions in the future regarding your panty drawer and it's contents, she could just ask instead of putting the skid in the position of looking pervy.
Like Yawn's response!! I
Like Yawn's response!!
I think its time to *force* DH to do something about this. I realise its difficult to impose your own views and actions onto someone else, however this is your home too.
I can tell you now, if I had done something like this to my own SM, my mother would probably agree with throwing me out of the house (albeit not on the street as she was the RP).
I would be telling DH "you either DO something and now, or you can go too...."