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What you do to keep intimacy with your hubby while kids are around?
In my case we have no privacy because his son comes at any time to the house or opens the door without knocking even if we tell him constantly not to and yes I have to always lock my door. We have to wait at night and by that time we are way too tired and is not the same.
Even if I mention to have a weekend off..guess what? my hubby immediately invites his son and is not about the 2 of us anymore instead is about what his son wants to do during that weekend.
Any advice or tips are welcome.
Intimacy....uhm....I seem to
Intimacy....uhm....I seem to remember something about that. It rings a bell. Hold on while I look it up on Wikipedia. Once I remember what it actually is I am sure I will be able to answer your question. }:)
I'm being serious is like the
I'm being serious is like the passion is gone. Every second, minute is about his son but what about keeping our relationship alive? Is like we don't have that anymore.
How old is your SS? It
How old is your SS? It sounds to me like you & your DH need to create some boundaries. It's so important to ensure that you have couple time...I don't know what I'd do if my SO & I didn't make it a top priority! I'm resident SM to 2 so I know I wouldn't deal well!
Good luck!
You don't say whether you
You don't say whether you have your SKIDS full time or just for weekend visits. We have SDs for the latter, and I have to say we have NEVER made love once with them in the house. Neither of us feels relaxed enough to do so. As they are only here EOW, it is not a huge problem, but obviously would be if they lived with us all the time. I'm not sure what to suggest other than what you're doing already, ie lock your bedroom door while you are engaged in marital relations.
Dr. Phil told his sons when
Dr. Phil told his sons when our bedroom door is shut you don't come in unless one of you is on fire. I think he youngest was around 4 at the time.
Even when the skids were young they knew not to come into our bedroom if the door was closed. That was of course when we were in it. SD#1 managed to steal many things of mine from the bedroom over the years. But that is another issue.
My SS would try to wait at
My SS would try to wait at night and knock on our door when he thought he would be disturbing our sex life - so one time I was kneeling by the door waiting for his feet to appear and when they did I went over to my bed and started moaning and yelling in a whisper "Yes DH OH Yes - keep going don't stop"
Needless to say SS never stood outside our door again!!