SO and I had a huge fight last night. We were getting things ready to leave for today to go to his parents house who live six hours away. I was in the kitchen making a special dog food for our super sick puppy trying to feed the dog at the same time and doing laundry. SO was in the living room sitting in his chair doing his stock thing on his laptop. He comes into the kitchen and starts to complain about how I was going to ruin the blender because I let it run while I was feeding the dog. I told him that I was sorry but I am trying to get 3 things done at once and I am not just sitting on my butt. He responds with a, "I wasn't sitting on my butt. I am busy making more than you make in 1 year." This comment pissed me off. I asked him why it couldn't wait until we were done for the evening and when he walked into the kitchen why he didn't offer to help me when he saw that I was busy doing other things. Unlike him I had yet to even sit down since I walked in the door from work. He then proceeds to storm off to the garage. On his way out he made a comment that he will not buy another blender if this one breaks. I told him that his mother gave him that blender and if I break it I'll just buy another one. He then proceeds to ask me where I am going to get the money for that since I didn't give him any money this month for the mortgage. I told him that the reason why is becuase instead of paying off my student loan I paid off his taxes becuase he lied about the amount of dependents in his house hold and was going to end up paying a lot of money which he didn't have at the time. So now I am paying off my student loan. SO being SO can't just stop there no no. He told me that amount of money that I paid on his taxes is nothing compared to how much more money it's costing him since my BD(6) and I moved in. At that point I told that my BD and I will just leave then.

Here's the thing. SO's mother came into town last weekend and helped me find a dress for a wedding that we are supposed to go to this weekend. It was to big so she took it with her when she left to taylor it. I don't want to leave this weekend with SO. He has offically pissed me off and I am not sure at this point where I want to porceed with our relationship. I also don't want to upset his mother. She's really nice. But I don't want to go with SO. He can tell his mother that he is an a$$hole and that's why I am not with him. What do you guys think? Stay at home or go with SO?