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Has anyone's BM ever "found" them on here?

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Submitted by MJL2010 on Mon, 03/07/2011 - 1:18pm

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I'm sorry if this is one of those topics that comes up sometimes and the answer is always reiterated for the new people just getting started on Steptalk. I received a message from a member saying that someone's BM found the stepmom on here. Has this happened to anyone? If no names are mentioned is what we write on here something that can cause trouble for us in family court? Thank you in advance.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Mon, 03/07/2011 - 1:20pm

i found her:)it's pretty easy for her to find me too.she does her ranting on another board and that's fine.it's her right to do so I guess.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Mon, 03/07/2011 - 1:23pm

technically i didn't "find" her.a friend found her and felt the rude urge to send me the link.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 03/07/2011 - 2:34pm

My bm is just like crayons she thinks no matter what she does it is right because she is the mom. She told that to the judge I kid u not. She told him that she is the mom and knows best and he can't go agaagainst here. So I don't see her looking for advice especially on the internet because she doesn't want way one telling her she is wrong lol

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Submitted by Shannon61 on Mon, 03/07/2011 - 2:53pm

I've been lucky in that I've never had issues with BM . . because SD has caused enough issues in her own right. Even if she did, she wouldn't have the nerve to confront me because I'm the one dealing with her pathetic ADULT daughter on a daily basis. And every day I see what SD wasn't taught. I have no respect for her BM and not a whole lot of respect for DH either because of SD's lack of character and lack of a moral compass.

I also feel that one shouldn't make it easy for someone else to recognize your situation even if you have to embelish just a tad.

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Submitted by happymostly on Mon, 03/07/2011 - 4:09pm

bm doesnt even have internet at her house, so im not too concerned that she would find me, but she might. Thats why I dont have my state listed in my profile and I dont hardly blog too much and if I do blog about things that *might* lead her to me, I delete them after a while. and I usually only blog questions or thoughts so I can get some feedback. and I hardly ever post forum topics, because you can't delete those yourself!