Three weeks ago SD13 called our house and said she wants to live with BM full time and not do the 50/50 with us like has been the arrangement. SS6 and SD7 are still going to be on the 50/50 but SD says that she "hates" me. DH says fine, I'll let her stay full time with BM but there needs to be a court order before it happens. So BM files the motion to modify and states that SD13 dislikes me, that I cause drama in her life and that she gets zero private time with DH because I'm always there.

Yes, I'm always there. I'm his wife. My DH is military and will be leaving this spring for possibly 18 months. So I spend EVERY second I can with him. WE also have a total of 5 children in our house. No one gets private time. I can't even have bowel movement to myself. Who the *%#@ does this kid think she is!

DH originally said that SD13 could live full time with BM but after reading the amount of bullshit that BM wrote about me, he decided to say screw that. He doesn't want to make life so easy for someone that is saying horrible things about his wife. (Yea Hubby) I have a legal background so I typed up an opposition and a cross motion to dismiss. In Alaska, it is stated that their must be a substantial change of circumstances to be able to modify the original custody agreement. She's already tried to get sole custody of the kids once before and I creamed her ass with this rule before. The rule also states a child should be of the age AND capacity to make a preference. Well, she's of age but she's an idiot. So there goes that one out the window. Anywho, we filed the motions and are positive that they will be granted again. Well DH gets a call from BM this afternoon. And low and behold.... she's going to file for a voluntary dismissal on her own. Now, this doesn't sound right to me. I'm pretty sure she has something up her sleeve and I don't know quite what it is. Because I was expecting a melt down of epic proportions.

I'm just sitting here, waiting for the storm to hit. Or maybe...just maybe she decided that she's been defeated this go-round and has decided to be mature and gracefully back out. What do you guys think? Anyone been in a similar situation? How did it turn out.

If you're wondering about why I soooo dislike this kid, you can look up my previous posts. i.e. putting her cat in the microwave and turning it on, telling BM that I force her to call me mom, trying to blame me when she didn't make the basketball team. I've told her to her face that she is a pathological liar. Every word that comes out of her mouth is a lie. UGH. Anywho, that's that.