Stepparents Bill of Rights~

I will be part of the decision making process in my marriage and family at all times.

People of outside my immediate family, including ex's, in laws, and children cannot make plans that affect my life without my consent.

I will not be responsible for the welfare of children for whom I can set no limits.

I must be consulted about which children will live with us, when they can visit and how long.

I will not be solely responsible for housework; chores will be distributed fairly.

I will be consulted on all family financial matters.

Others may not violate my private space at home, nor take or use my possessions without my permission.

I will not be treated like an outsider in my own home.

My spouse and stepchildren will treat me with respect.

Our marriage is our first priority, and we will address all issues together.