I have been with my boyfriend for the past 2 years he has a son who is 14 and lives with us and a son who is 20 and is a United States Marine and is stationed in another state. My bf's ex-wife has made my life a living hell since day one, she has tried to manipulate both boys to hate me. Even the one who is a marine and doesnt live in the same state as us and is an adult he hates me so much and I dont understand it. The 14 year old I believe wants to like me and does try too he is such a sweet boy he really is and i love him to death, but he always has his mom in his ear telling him awful things about me. She has told him so many lies about me that I have done awful things to her and have said awful things to her about her son etc etc etc... I have never had words with this woman other then answering the phone and giving it to her son. She has screamed bloody murder at me through a car window or on the phone and I am trying to be the better person and just look at her and walk away or if its on the phone just giving the phone to her son to talk to and not say anything at all. But this is getting harder and harder to do. Honestly I want to grab her by her hair scream in her face and tell her what I think about her. This woman is pure evil and how she has such control of her kids when they dont even live with her. They live with my boyfriend and myself. I just dont understand why she hates me so much. I have never done anything to her, I have never done anything to either one of her children. I have only treated them both with the upmost respect and loving nature. But she has been coming at me since day one. She is an awful mother, she barely gets the 14 year old. Her visitation is every other weekend and at least one weekend a month she blows her son off or doesnt get him at all until the following month, she has no job, she is constantly moving around from one boyfriend to another and then back to the original one. It is a constant drama with her. She will not call her son for a week and then the following week she will call every single day... She is not on drugs or anything according to my boyfriend she is a very very selfish woman and never thinks of anyone but herself, which after seeing her actions I tend to agree with him. He is just so sick to death of the constant drama between her & I. She is the one yelling and im the one walking away or crying to my boyfriend about how I am treated by this woman I have never done anything too. My boyfriend does try to stand up to her for me and tell her to leave me out of this and to stop it, but it doesnt do any good... SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. I just do not understand what I have done to deserve this. My boyfriend thinks it has to do with the fact that I get to see her son everyday and that I am with her ex-husband. But if she is so freaked out about my boyfriend why did she leave him. not once but twice for a different man. They were married for a total of 19 years having divorced and remarried once and then divorced again... I could go on and on about this situation