my finacee is taking his ex wife back to court because she has not held up to the divorce agreements they signed to. They both had agreed to 50/50 custody and they are both responsible for half of the bills that pertain to the child, daycare, dr, etc. My fiancee pays child support since he makes more than her...but there's a catch...for the past 9 months she hasn't had the child for 50% of the time. She's "too busy" but she collects food stamps, housing asisstance, financial aid for school, AND the child support, all while only having their son for maybe 3 days out of the month. She's never had him for a weekend, she is always "busy". Anyway, my fiancee filed a complaint a couple months ago with a lawyer, since she hasn't had him 50% of the time he wants to change it so he's the custodial parent so HE can get the child support because he has him all the time. Well a couple weeks ago someone filed a complaint with Social Services because she's collecting food stamps for her child when he's not even living there..so now she's wanting to take him 50% of the time...so she doesn't get her ass in trouble...I wonder if the courts will change this agreement now that she wants to be a parent...note that she has NO clue that he's taking her back to court...she has no idea...I hope we don't get screwed on this one...I think after spending almost a year scamming the system someone would charge her with some kind of fraud but everyone says we have to wait until court basically...this whole situation just stinks...and I know I've said before that his son drives me insane but I'm sick of the poor kid getting shuffled around and his feelings being screwed with...he needs some stability already...and they wonder why he's messed up...