My BF and I talked about what time the kids should go to bed on saturday night. They had stayed up late the night before and were tired and we had lots of "easter bunny" stuff to do. We decided on 8:30 for bed time. My BS doesn't care and would go to bed at 7pm if we told him too, lol. However SD had a huge problem with it. She started with "pleeeease" I was cleaning up the kitchen and didn't realise SD was in my bedroom harassing her dad, she whines and whines and then he gives in. Anyway, she came running out and said "We get to stay up until 9pm now" I said "no you don't your dad and I already discussed it and it's 8:30 just because you whine and whine until he can't take it anymore doesn't mean you're going to get your way, it's still 8:30". I wish I had taken a picture of her, she was so mad she cried and screamed that she hates us all (not that I really care) but her dad doesn't like when she is mad at him, I try to explain that even when a child says I hate you they will always love their mommy or daddy. He said to me "what's the big deal, it's only 9pm" He just doesn't get it, she can't win or the next time she'll just whine longer until he gives in. So he went out to the living room and said "She says it's still 8:30 and you shouldn't try to make me change my mind, I discussed it with her and she wants it to stay 8:30". Notice how he calls me "she" or "her". GRRRR, I said "my name is Dawn and yes it's still 8:30" Why does he make me out to be the bad guy, he's the one that said 8:30 to begin with. I hate when she comes to visit, she just disrupts the entire household. I wish that the week began with Sunday afternoon and ended Friday afternoon and then started over again at sunday afternoon, lol.