So my 20 year old has a new girlfriend. She has a 4 month old baby. She started working same place as him Oct 12 so her a little over a month and they have been dating less then two weeks. I say "dating" loosely. She broke up with previous boyfriend Oct 24 and started dating my son on November 10th. She immediately tried to move him in even though he had just rented an apartment with his twin sister. She is freaks out when he wants to go home to his own apartment. Already is trying to get his twin (who has cerebral palsy and can't walk very good) to babysit and referring to him as her husband. She appears to like him but seems like one of those girls who starts planning a wedding the second she's in a relationship.

Flash to this week (10 days into their relationship) and my son is in a wreck. He had her baby in the car because she of course had him babysitting. He had gotten up at 6am worked all day then drove to her house picked her up and dropped her off at work and was babysitting for her. Since she can't be 5 minutes without a man she had him drag the baby out 8pm so he could come visit her during her 30 minute lunch. Him and the baby spent more time in the truck then with her! Anyway on his way back to her apartment he got into a wreck. Baby is fine she was in her car seat and kept her safe. However my son got an airbag to the face. He had a broken nose, lacerations, swollen eye and all the fun stuff you get from an airbag. I got to the accident scene and my poor son started crying and he never cries. We couldn't get ahold of his girlfriend and since they are a new relationship he had no numbers for her family. Finally my aunt who is a manager at the work went and picked her up and brought her to the er. My aunt said in the car she wasn't asking if my son was ok but if he had insurance.

At the Er she was really pissing me off! Baby checked out again no injuries and released. My son is taken back for a CT scan and during this time handed me all of his stuff. I called his father and twin update them and during this time the girlfriend starts freaking out because some of my son's friend's from high school commented on his twins status that they hope he is ok and for him to call them. Then of course a few start texting or commenting on his Facebook page. Girlfriend freaks out because apparently he's not allowed to talk to girls even if has never dated them and known them since kindergarten. She starts searching for his phone saying she was going to block them. I was pissed! I looked at her and said "why the h$ll would you block a friend of 12 years that he never dated". She didn't say anything but was frantically searching for his phone. I refused to give it to her. I kept it in my pocket till we left. She then moves on to obsessively talking about insurance, rental cars, and settlements. I tell her numerous times that he rear ended someone and currently at fault and only has liability so he's not getting money or a rental car. She keeps saying they didn't have lights on so he can sue and they have to give him a rental car and wants to argue with me about his insurance coverage. Keep in mind he's still in CT!!!

They had nothing for the baby there since everything was in the car and smokey my son didn't even bother to grab it because you can't give a baby a bottle or pacifier from a smokey crashed car! First she mad at that then she decides since the car seat was in a wreck the hospital was supposed to give her a new one. Then she gets pissy with nurse because they said they didn't have any pacifiers. Baby is spitting up everywhere has no blanket or change of clothes. This is all going on while doctors and nurse are trying to treat my son. Finally the girls mother gets there and then she refuses to leave. She wants her mother to drive 30 minutes to her apartment pick up stuff for the baby and bring it back to her. Baby is still screaming head off. I think her mother could tell I was getting pissed. But she refused to leave. I finally told her "your baby is exhausted and needs her bed. You leave and take care of your baby and I'll take care of mine". I finally had to swear he would go back to her house and she starts looking for his phone again. I refuse to give it to her and said he needed it call his dad. Finally she leaves. He gets released about an hour later we started gathering his stuff up and can't find his wallet he calls her and sure enough she took it. Great now we can't get his prescriptions filled because she took his wallet. I against my better judgment dropped him off at her apartment (government ones so of course she shouldn't have a man there) and told him I would get him in the morning.

Flash to next morning I refuse to let her and the baby go with us. No way a 4 month old needs to be in a cold wrecking yard. She calls the whole time. I take him back to my house to call insurance his sergeant (he's army reserves) and work on all the fun stuff after a wreck. She's freaking out still talking about rental cars and insurance money. Finally I tell son I can drive him back and forth to work if he's at my house I'm not driving 30 minutes opposite way for him to stay at her apartment. Son is hurting pretty bad and very tired so he decides to stay at my house last night. She freaks out!!! Starts telling him she can't be alone. He told her his phone was dying so he'd call her later. She freaks out starts calling my phone and I ignore. Later that day she starts harassing him to come to her work during her lunch so they can discuss his truck saying if he doesn't have a car by Monday they are screwed. At this point I get mad! I finally texted her and said "You need to calm down! He is in pain and exhausted he's not going anywhere. His father and I have already handled his car issue and she needed to worry about herself" She then texted my son and told him I made her cry and that all she was trying to do was provide for her baby. And she is now having major anxiety and throwing up. I told my son it was not his job to help her provide for her baby. That baby has a father and a mother and he's only known her for two weeks!!! I asked him how she was getting to work and who babysitter before she met him. He didn't know and I think the way she was acting was starting to exhaust him. She then started saying she had talked to an "agent" and that his insurance company was wrong the other people were at fault and should pay him. OMG! The wreck happened the nigh before they don't even have a police report yet!!!

So who's BM is this???? Can you imagine being this girls' baby's SM!!!! She's wearing me out! Please pray my son comes to his senses or she gets tired of him now that he can't drive her around or be a free babysitter. Plus what kind of mother leaves her 4 month old daughter with a man she's just met or with a girl she's just met who is physically disabled and can not walk and carry a baby without risk of falling!!!!