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Stepchildren are driving me closer to divorce

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Submitted by dragonfly3018 on Wed, 09/13/2017 - 9:22pm

My husband of 3 yrs has 6 children. Oldest 2 he has nothing to do with for about 7 yrs due to the children growing up and basically they chose not to continue the relationship. Middle 3 he sees every other weekend, 13 yr old daughter has developmental disabilities, adhd and seizures. 10 yr old son has autism, developmental disabilities, adhd and seizures. 9 yr old son has no problems (except listening). Other child I found out about shortly before we got married in 2014. (3 baby mommas). The 3 children we have are terrors. 13D is not capable of cleaning herself after

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Thu, 09/14/2017 - 1:37am

:jawdrop: I would never get involved with a man like this, I'm sorry....

Now if you meet him with 5 kids, it's fine, it's your life, but dang before marriage you find out there's a hidden child - I would've called off the wedding and started running.

I hope you are disengage and let him handle the children.... seriously is this the way you want to spend your life?

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Submitted by dragonfly3018 on Fri, 09/15/2017 - 8:05pm

I kick myself daily for not running!! I only wish I had enough room to text the other dumb crap I found out after marriage!!
At this point all I want to do is make it through the weekend
I also drink rum daily!!

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Submitted by WagiMorri on Thu, 09/14/2017 - 7:23am

I think it’s less to do with the children and more to do with the man who calls himself their father.