My husband and I have been together for a total of 7 years. We have a child of our own together. Unfortunately, he has a nightmare from a previous marriage that has to be dealt with every other week!

The ex-wife is so bitter about their divorce that she uses their son as a pawn to make our lives a living hell. She brainwashes this kid to do and say bad things at our house.

We tried to get him out of that situation with the nasty mom. It took us 4 years and about 50k for an ignorant judge to say he stays with the mom. Well, let me tell you, the judge is a f__king idiot! The courts witness, a clinical psychologist of 37 years told the judge after 2 years of counseling all of us that the child would be damaged as an adult if he remained with the mom. He also said the child was the most manipulative kid he had seen in a long time.

After a few months of being pissed at the judge for making the wrong decision, I'm now glad that he left the kid with the mom. She has him so brainwashed I don't think any amount of counseling could help him. Plus he lies so much that I don't trust him. He has a violent streak that scares me enough to never allow my child to be with him unsupervised. Ever! This kid just recently was arrested for 5 counts of verbal assault. He threatened to kill 5 other kids at his school! And what do you know, he got little more than a slap on the back of the hand. I mean, WTF is wrong with the justice system in his county?

The ex-wife is such a piece of crap that she can't leave us alone! She actually kept doctor bills for a year and then went to child support services and falsely claimed my husband was in Contempt of Court for unpaid medical bills. What so f'ed about this is she owes us money for a doctor bill we already paid that she refuses to pay her portion of. Did anything happen to her? Nope! Then child support services reviewed the current child support to see if there was a significant variance for an increase and thankfully there wasn't! She was pissed and even argued with the DA over it! LOL! But what is funny is that the last time the worksheet was determined, she lied about the actual work related childcare expense. I'm talking $1400 over what she actually pays and she had her nasty lawyer add extra income that was never earned to my husband's wages! Well all she did was cut her nose off to spite her face! She was being paid way to much child support and now that my husband's makes more money, she will never get an increase because she padded the worksheet so much with that childcare that she doesn't use anymore. Oh, by the way, this kid is almost 14 years old and she tried telling the DA she still uses daycare!

Now that she didn't get a CS increase, she's using the kid to cause trouble at our house! I have gotten to the point where I keep a voice recorder on me whenever it is just me and him and my husband isnt there. That kid lies so much and has already told lies about me and my husband that I'm afraid of what he will do if I don't have evidence of some kind to protect myself from his lies.

I'm counting down the days when the ex and that nasty step child are out of our lives forever!