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No, BM2, you aren't allowed at the funeral

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 7:11am

My MIL passed away this past Sunday. She was a very nice lady but I had only known her a few years so it's not too upsetting for me. DH, however, is heartbroken understandably. I have been helping him and FIL any way they need me to. Mostly I just let DH grieve and be sad.

So money hungry vulture GU BM2 starts poking her nose up DH's backside because MIL has died. As this means DH is 1/2 the way closer to his inheritance. CHA CHING! BM2 is all of a sudden nicey nice and butt kissey. Barf.

She had the gonads to ask if she could fly in for the funeral. Ya know, the woman that has "no money" to give us for any for of child support *eyeroll* FIL said absolutely not so DH said to BM2 that his dad does not want her at the funeral.

Now she has her pissy pants on and is mad at DH because FIL won't kiss the ground her golden uterus hovers over. She has conveniently forgotten about all the horrible things she put DH through and the untrue, scathing accusations she told FIL down the phone years ago that caused FIL to never speak to her again.

So now she's "punishing" us by not talking to DH (woooohoooo!!!) and sent FIL a long winded text about how she's soooooo disappointed that she isn't allowed to attend the funeral because she was sooooooo close to MIL and loved and cared for her sooooooo much. Right, uh huh.

The real fun will come once FIL passes and DH really does get his inheritance. I will just sit back, pop the popcorn, and watch the fireworks. Ugh, the crazy ones never rest!!!

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Submitted by twoviewpoints on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 7:25am

"So now she's "punishing" us by not talking to DH (woooohoooo!!!) "

Lol. Right? BM, more of that kind of punishment, please.

" sent FIL a long winded text about how she's soooooo disappointed that she isn't allowed to attend the funeral because she was sooooooo close to MIL and loved and cared for her sooooooo much. "

She needs removed from FIL's phone. The guy's beloved wife just died. He doesn't need this.

Sorry to hear of MIL's passing. May she rest in peace.

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 7:38am

COoookies - welcome back again.....

Condolences to you and your family......

regarding BM - ignore the silly woman, SS is old enough she can contact him directly, DH, you and FIL can block her, or every time she contacts either of you 3 she should only hear... when will you pay CS?

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 9:22am

Cooooookies, my sincere condolences for your family's loss.

Please immediately block this skank from your FIL's phone. She has NO business contacting him. The poor man just lost his wife. He doesn't need to deal with any sort of BS.

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Submitted by Tuff Noogies on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 9:26am

every word of this ^^^

(((hugs))) to the cooookies family.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 9:34am

Thanks so much Aniki and Tuff <3

FIL just lost the woman he's known for 69 years and all that horrid woman thinks of his herself. It's infuriating! FIL has removed her from his phone already. He said he wanted to send a text back that said "Well F you too!" but ignored her instead.

The text would have been way more funnier and satisfying! Biggrin }:)

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 9:45am

Cooooookies, when my darling Mom passed 5 years ago (happy birthday in Heaven today, Mom!!), my Dad was just lost. He pretty much went through the motions every day - getting up, eating, doing chores - because you keep going. Less than a month later, at my nephew's wedding, nephew's step-grandskank was FLIRTING with my Dad. My Dad who had recently lost his wife to whom he'd been absolutely devoted. And step-grandskank did this right in front of her HUSBAND!! My loathing for that woman grew from a microdot to the size of Jupiter that day. Some selfish arseholes have zero boundaries and think only of themselves.

"Who Is This" would have been a nice response (immediately followed by blocking). IMHO.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Mon, 09/26/2016 - 2:24am

:jawdrop: That is just beyond disgusting!....and also something BM2 would to! Unreal

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Submitted by notsobad on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 9:46am

Sorry for your loss, I hope DH is doing ok.

BM here is hoping that FIL and MIL will leave money to the Grandkids, that way she'll get her share because she'll guilt the kids into giving it to her. She did give up the best years of her life to raise them you know.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Mon, 09/26/2016 - 2:26am

Oh FIL and DH are already planning on how to leave SS14's share of money because BM2 would guilt it out of him and SS14, having special needs and loving his "mother", would let her nickle and dime him into the poor house.

So any money SS ever receives is being forever left with a lawyer with very specific instructions on how none of it should EVER be given or even have a chance to go to BM2.

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Submitted by notsobad on Mon, 09/26/2016 - 9:48am

So sad that people have to go to these lengths.

My skids aren't special needs but they are convinced that their mother has gotten the short end of the stick and that nothing is her fault.
If they had any money right now they'd bail her out of her current predicament!

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Submitted by Elizamen on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 9:49am

Condolences for your loss. I can only reaffirm what everyone has already said: the gall of that woman to text your FIL who just lost his wife about her feelings!!!! Ugh!!! People can be horrible creatures!!!

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Submitted by breakingthrough... on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 9:53am

Condolances Cookies..

But just a warning, at my MIL's funeral ALL THREE of the stepbrats asked their father about their inheritance. Ugh. Even he was disgusted with them.

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Submitted by notsobad on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 4:07pm

You know what, as horrible as that is it's a good thing.

Anytime anyone else sees what crappy greedy people they are it's a good thing.

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Submitted by Monchichi on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 11:26am

I'm so sorry for your husband and FIL's loss. Ignore the cray as much as possible. Is pooper alright?

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 11:43am

Thank you Mon.

Yes, Pooper is still...pooping. Just yesterday actually. Five days worth of smelly underwear and he lied when I asked him, even though I could literally smell him from across the room and he was leaving a stench vapor trail throughout the house :sick:

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Submitted by Monchichi on Fri, 09/23/2016 - 11:48am

When is he going on a full screens ban for a month? Your husband really needs to handle this kid Sad

How is your son doing?

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Sun, 09/25/2016 - 7:59am

Mon I have had to adopt the mantra of "not my monkey, not my circus." It is the only way. I refuse to let anything BM2 or BM2 related affect our marriage. It has just come down to that.

My BS is doing good. I will message you the same thing I messaged uhhhh whatever her new name is Wink