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Starting to really believe that BM is stalking us...

BSgoinon's picture

First she shows up at DH's work a few weeks ago, then SS's school that same day. Now yesterday, my girls were walking down to the store on the corner. There are a few restaurants and such in that parking lot. We have seen BM sitting in that parking lot in the past because there is a McDonalds there and she uses their free wifi. But that was when she lived in our town, and still saw SS. When my girls got home, I was grateful that SS decided not to go with them because they saw BM in the parking lot. My oldest said she saw them and started to leave but her car died. So she sat in her car until they were past her and then got out and did something to it and left.

Now that I am thinking about it, SS ALWAYS wants to go to the store with them so it was a little odd that he didn't go. I saw that he spoke to her for 3 minutes yesterday around that time. I wonder if she told him that she was there so he didn't want to leave the house. Wouldn't surprise me at all.

She is getting kind of scary. Good thing SS is a smart kid.

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WalkOnBy's picture

Ask SS if MethMom told him she was going to be there.

If the answer is yes, probably not stalking you.

If the answer is no, then yeah, time for a PPO

BSgoinon's picture

Yeah, I will. I didn't even think about it from that perspective until I was typing that out. I bet he knew and she was trying to get him to come outside and see her. She has NO reason to be in that area. No friends there, no work, no business... and she lives 30 minutes away. MethMan lives on the other side of town. Her mom lives in a completely different town. Literally the ONLY thing she has reason to be over there for, is our house.

mommadukes2015's picture

She is so dangerous. With the drugs mixed in with the natural side of crazy, I would be worried too. Not to mention the fact that she drives in that state. Ooof. Thank God your SS has you and DH.

Powerfamily's picture

Is there anyway you/dh can check that she is actually in Rehab and what are the consequences if she isn't as it is court ordered.

BSgoinon's picture

She isn't in rehab. We would know if she was. She would be giving us updates. The only consequence now is that she is not able to request a revision of the parenting plan. It will remain 100% in our control until she completes rehab. After that, if she chooses, she can request a revision which will require us to go back to court. No deadline, no new court date until she has proof of completion.

BSgoinon's picture

She didn't even go to the out patient program she promised us she was going to start last month. There is no way she is going to inpatient.