Ugh.. SD18 is graduating on Friday. MIL is bringing her home from Aunt J's and SD18 will be working at a camp in our state for the summer, then going to back to Aunt J's to start college. Aunt J messaged me the other day, something to the effect that she hopes that SDs few days with us will be good and that she stays away from GBM/BM1 clan. I told her SD18 is an adult, DH and I are not the scum bag police. If SD wants to go hang out with BM/GBM, live with them, worship them, whatever... she's an ADULT, she's going to do it and she CAN do it.

Well apparently, SD18 got a phone call this morning from BM1 who told her that GBM was in the hospital and that she is on her death bed. Aunt J called MIL (who is the gossip queen and is chitty chatty with GBM/BM1) and MIL said not true. GBM is in the hospital, but it's nothing life threatening. Annnnd here we go. Guarantee this is the plot they have schemed to get SD18 back in their claws, and trust me, I don't doubt that SD is involved in the plot. DH just said whatever... she'll do what she'll do, if she wants to run back to the people who have fucked her up, then that's her decision as an adult now. I have a feeling that this 6-8 weeks that SD18 is going to be in my state is going to be nothing but drama... ugh!

On a side note, the gal that used to watch BS6 before he started PreK last year, sent me a message the other night.. apparently she went to school with BM1.. they were friendly but not really "friends" Anyway, she said "WTF is wrong with BM1?" She said that she ran into her at a school carnival and that BM1 looked like she was 50 (she's 38 or 39) and that her face was all broken out and she kept scratching her arms and acting all jittery. Well, guess the rumor we heard was true.. sounds like BM1 is doing meth or some such nonsense. I have no idea how she keeps custody of her other 4 kids, CPS is such a joke. But whatever, that's none of my business.. keep it classy BM!