Even though BM never sees SS anymore, she still has legal rights to 50/50 custody. So, typically when she decides she wants to play "mom" for a minute and see SS, we make sure it is on "her days" and we can't really say "no" if she requests on those days. We told her from the start of this that we would not be changing OUR schedules to accommodate her so don't ask to see him if it isn't her day, and don't wait until the last minute. If we don't hear from you, we will make plans and not change them for you.

She hasn't seen SS since 3/20, for an hour. She has not called his phone or text him since long before that. There is no communication between SS and BM at all.

Thursday the emails started. I posted about her asking to see him on our day, DH told her no, and don't start asking to see him on our days. Well, that didn't stop her. It continued all weekend. Can I see him today? Can I stop by for a few minutes? I want to see him on Easter, what are your plans? I want to pick him up from school. Please tell him I will call him today. I want to pick him up from school Tuesday.

Well, DH simply sent her a copy of the CO showing that Easter is ours this year. With a comment "It's 2016, an even year. You can see him next year on Easter". When she started saying she wanted to pick him up from school, DH ignored her. He is still on Spring break. NO SCHOOL DUMBASS. Finally today she asks to see him tomorrow. DH tells her "he has plans". Which he does. He is going to HER dads house. If she spoke to her dad, she would know that. So she asks "Wednesday? Thursday" Friday is my day, I want him all day". And. the kicker... "can I stop by and say hi to him at your house? I am right up the street". Oh, and Did you tell SS I said Happy Easter?

DH FINALLY responds. I copied this out of his email to her, of course changing the names-

BM- I will not tell you again to not bother asking to see him on our days. The fact that you don't have your life together enough to see SS on your regular days is not our problem, and I will not disrupt the rest of my families schedule because you decide you have a minute to play mom. Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES are you to stop by my house EVER. Just because you now sleep a mile away from us does not give you an open invitation to stop by whenever you feel like it. That is not ok, and will never happen. Do not do it, and remember, I have security camera's I will see you and you will not like the measures I will go to making sure that never happens again if attempt it. I did not tell SS you said happy easter, you didn't ask me to. You did ask me to tell him that you would call him later, which I also did not do because, well, I knew you wouldn't, thanks for proving me right. I refuse to feed him full of false hopes of you being a normal parent when we both know that's not the case. So, you can see him Friday. We will leave it up to SS if he wants to spend an entire day with you. But I wouldn't hold my breath on that one if I were you, since we were hard pressed to get him to hang with you for even a half an hour on your birthday not too long ago. Please stop with the constant emails, I will not be replying . You can pick him up on Friday at 430, when I am home from work to make sure you are in a state satisfactory to drive with him in your car.

He is SOOOOOOO getting laid tonight }:)