I said all of this to say that!

I have a very important class tomorrow and we only have one car. I did not take off from class because I did not intend to attend the funeral. I planned to go on about my day as usual. DB is saying he won't be able to take me to class if he is still at dinner with his family. I go to school in another county and I have no other ride. I told him to leave for 30 min, come pick me up, i'll drop him back off at the funeral and he can catch a ride to dinner with one of his family members. Am I wrong for this? Should I spend money and catch a cab to school because of the seriousness of his obligations or should he come and let me use the car? Sorry, had to edit since I got the answers I needed. I have chosen not to be an ass and catch a cab.

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I am in my 30's. I am in

I am in my 30's. I am in this relationship because he is always honest with me, even about the messed up stuff he has done. I can respect that. I'm no saint myself.

His baby mother told him

His baby mother told him herself that she had been sleeping with another guy and she didn't know who the father was. She also never put him on the visitation list to give him access to visit the baby at the hospital. I was never allowed to see the baby. She asked him for abortion money and he gave it to her and she kept it and never had the procedure done. Please tell me, honestly, how am I supposed to truly feel sympathy for her other than the fact that she has lost a child. I will take a cab to class though. You all are right on that one. That was selfish of me.

Drive him to the funeral and

Drive him to the funeral and have his family drive him back home? Is that an option? Or, take a cab; call a classmate, friend or family to give you a ride to class.

Funeral ALWAYS rates over class.

Noticed you deleted much of the storyline from earlier. You don't have to worry about who the BM was or wasn't sleeping with ... The baby is dead. None of that other stuff really matters. Rise above the craziness & drama.