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Cooooookies's picture

Sorry for disappearing but a lot had happened these last few weeks and I just felt like deleting it all and starting over. I am the same cookies as before, just an extra O in the name Smile

Short of the long of it, BS14 isn't here. After many many MANY talks with him and my family, the best thing for him right now is to stay in the US. Also after my family chilled out for a few days, they didn't really want him to leave their home and never come back.

BS is doing great in school and has all of the school, medical, therapist and any help he needs there. Not so much here, especially with the initial status of visitor. Needless to say I am majorly disappointed but I do want what's best for him. BS wanted to stay there as well and understandably not thrown out in anger by my side of the family.

Anywho, long drawn out messed up story, as it always seems to be in my world. I'm tired and upset and done with family drama but on the plus side, all of this nightmare craziness has been a HUGE wake-up call for BS to get his stuff together and stop his non-sense. Of course we all know he'll still be a teenager but will actually use the resources he's been given instead of pulling one these b.s. stunts again.

And NO, Sally, BM2 is not crashing here because of whatever is going on in Cyprus. I'd have to be dead first! Blum 3

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TheAccidentalSM's picture

Wow. Sounds really tiring and upsetting but you seem to have survived.
Sorry you don't get to be with BS but glad it got worked out.

Thanks for the update. We've been worried.

Cooooookies's picture

Oh tommar, DH and I both think this isn't over. The next time (and there will be a next time I'm sure) my family cries BS14 has to go, he's coming here. Forget what they think or what BS wants. I did tell my family this cannot keep happening, BS needs to feel secure and loved and not worry that he doesn't have a home.

One more little drama show like this and he will be here. I even ended up talking to BS's bio dad as I was expecting to have legal proceedings in the US. He agreed that BS would be better with us as far as home life but better in the US for schooling and medical needs.

Time will tell.

Cooooookies's picture

He won't want to live with his father, that's for dead sure. We'll see as I don't think this is over. BS is supposed to visit for all of next summer...maybe he'll want to stay for good...

Tuff Noogies's picture

well hey stranger!

what i mess. i feel bad that your bs might be made to feel "disposable" by your family. he needs to feel secure. ugh...

and why wouldnt u want bm crashing w/ u? is that not every stepmom's dream?? LOL Blum 3

Cooooookies's picture

Hey there, it's good to be back! I think he'll end up with us in the end tuff.

My dream regarding BM2 is nothing that's legal Wink

Cooooookies's picture

Thanks outtahere, it's nice to know some people care enough to think of me Smile

I think he will be here by sometime next year to be honest. Difference is it will be something he wants instead of feeling rejected and outcast.

We shall wait and see...

Aniki-Moderator's picture

I'm glad you're back!! Hope everything works out with your son. Teenage years are no picnic. {{hugs}}