Hey guys, I know it looks like I'm new here, but I'm not exactly. I just haven't been here in about 3 yrs, but before that I was a daily blogger here for about 4 yrs. This site saved my marriage and I have had some meaningful bonds with some of the step moms I met here.
DH and I are at a point with SD17 and BM that we just do not allow their drama to infect our lives any longer, there was a point it was so bad I had to seek medical help.
Our lives have been great since we have chosen to disengage, so I'm back and hope maybe I can share some of what I've learned over the years and get advice for us as well here and there when the drama threatens to suck us back in.

Slainte` Ladies!