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AustinTX1119's picture

Submitted by AustinTX1119 on Wed, 07/01/2015 - 2:42pm

WELL ... ive got some new drama in my life!!!!
Why is it that my sons father, whom i live with & not legally married too finds it ok to make sure his other children are taken care of, but leaves me with the responsiblity of fending for "our" child. As I am in between jobs and dont make as much as him & all i ask is to help with our combined bills that we have together and to even get that turns into a huge fight!!!!!!! It is like pulling teeth and what he doesnt understand is we got into that combined debt together, im not asking him to pay my bills i had before he came along. So as I am sitting here expressing my concern with how im going to pay this bill or that bill and how it sucks to be a college graduate with a low paying job, blah blah blah his response is .... Im going to pay my ex a little more money for the kids isnurance :/ ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm OK sure yeah i guess that makes since!!!!!! keep in mind my child is on medicaid since "I" cant afford insurance for him at the moment.
WHY WHY WHY??????????

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ChiefGrownup's picture

Submitted by ChiefGrownup on Wed, 07/01/2015 - 2:55pm

Well, that's just crazy. I'd move into a tiny apt I could afford on my own with my kid and let dh figure out where to house his mob when they visit. Since you're stuck to your own income solely go ahead and live like you are. BTW, he can also figure out where he sleeps at my place. Maybe charge him per night like a hotel if he stays at your place and do not allow skids at allow. Good luck, buddy.

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Submitted by Snowflake on Wed, 07/01/2015 - 2:59pm

I would tell him that you can go After child support or he can help with the bills.

If it were me, I would be freaking seeing red. My bios with my dh come first to me, and that means making sure that my dh takes care of their needs.

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Submitted by robin333 on Wed, 07/01/2015 - 3:25pm

No, no, no! Get him out or find you and your child a place and file for CS. You deserve better!

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Wed, 07/01/2015 - 3:38pm

I don't know how you can stand to look at him. I would be livid if lived in a two parent home and had to put my kid on medicaid.

You would be better off being a single mother. At least that way you would be able to CS. Then you and dad would be responsible for the kid's health insurance instead of the government.