I am just over it here in this house! I know I am in a mood because I am sick and PMSing but why can't DH do anything about the things that legitimately bother me? Then when I shut down, he wants to know what is wrong. GRRRRRR
When he got home I asked him to PLEASE get on the parent portal and check Thunderfoot's assignments and grades and whatnot. I have only asked him repeatedly to do this for the past 3 weeks. He can give me the password and I will do it if he doesn't want to. Well, now he can't because fuck it! If she fails...she fails! I also said, "I believe that she is the one who brought her dirty bathroom mats and just threw them in the laundry room. She needs to find some time to get those washed and dried and put back in the bathroom where they belong. Also, you may want to stick your head in her room because it smells like urine in there...BADLY! She has zero chores to do around here (which burns my ass) except her laundry and clean her room. ( I don't really consider those chores, it's her shit, she's 16...DO IT!) If you think it smells ok...whatever but I think it's nasty." She has hamsters in there and she NEVER cleans their cage. So I am sure that is where the smell is coming from, along with the mountain of dirty clothes in there. That she is supposed to keep up but never does! Did he say anything to her? Nope not a word yet and that was over 2 hours ago. I am so over trying with him because he just sees it as me bitchy all the time. FML....