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Do any of you have truely evil ex's or partners ex's

Red_panda7's picture

Ok so here is my question, do any of the rest of you have evil Ex's? What's the worst thing your Ex's have done? Or maybe not worst so much as just mean, evil, vindictive.

This isn't my worst it's just most recent.

My Ex just stole ... (F*** I'm so mad.) By way of opening a credit card in my maiden F***ING name. 1000 dollars. Maxed it out. Aparrently he did this last May and then didn't pay on it for over 6 months. He then attached an Amazon prime account to my work bank card and began ordering up to $70 before I caught it. I don't even know how he got my card number. He then tells me he has his sources. He then says I may as well get used to it he's going to get Alimony and get our son back.

This is after a judge has already told him he will only get 4 weeks in summer if he can behave like an adult till summer. Which after finding out he stole money from me by totally illegally attaching the stupid amazon account. I hope he burns or is bitten by a cobra. (Spits venom his direction)
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Red_panda7's picture

I already did and am getting replacement cards on everything. Contacted the credit agency Aparrently the investigation will take months. It's creepy to think someone spy'd on me to get it though.

Red_panda7's picture

As of right now till this whole mess is straightened out my credit score is below 500 and I can't do much to fix it till they've had an investigation, I say what's to investigate he just admitted to it. In a text.

zerostepdrama's picture

Wow that is crazy and not good. Not good at all. Make sure you press charges.

No none of my exes have done anything like that. I'm cordial or on good terms with all of my exes, even BS's dad.

BM was a little crazy when her and DH seperated for the last time. Burned all of his clothes. She continues to sometimes do vindictive things and has tried to black mail DH or scam him, since I have been with him.

StepKat's picture

The latest with the troll; last weekend we had the skids. At the pick up the troll tells DH that the boys had been giving her issues when she took them shopping for new shirts and that all their current shirts don't fit (both were lies). She asked DH to buy them shirts from Old Navy while we had them. DH agreed bc he's never going to say no to buying the kids clothes (I guess it's bc he doesn't actually get to do it like a father who has his kids every day Sad ). Now, neither DH or myself allow the kids or excuse the kids when they act up with their mother. So that night DH asked the boys why they have been causing trouble with their mother when she takes them to get shirts. Answer: "Mom hasn't taken us to get shirts. All our shirts fit and we don't give her a hard time when she does takes us shopping." SD14 confirmed this. SS12 was like "I don't know why she does this to y'all and makes y'all do stuff because she won't" Out of the mouth of babes. Apparently, the troll is too "busy" with her all important job as a wedding planner to take her own kids shopping for clothes. And apparently she doesn't have enough money despite the damn CS she gets every month which is meant for things like clothes for the kids. Then on Sunday she texts DH and tells him the kids NEED to be at church at 5:00pm. So that means she won't be meeting half way like she should. She hates taking them to church and finds any way to get out of meeting DH half way. Again, SS12 and SD14 see this and are annoyed by her (they see these things on their own, we do not point them out or say anything about it around them).

StepKat's picture

I also have another one. Actually I have several but this one is money related like the OP's was. When I started dating DH he had this really old, run down, falling apart jeep thing because he agree to take it in the divorce and the troll got the nice new pilot. However, in title to this crap jeep thing was in the troll's name so technically she had to pay the note on it. What they agreed to is DH give her the money for the note so she could pay it, on top of the CS. Well, when I moved in with DH she stopped using the note money for the damn car note. It didn't occur to her that the dealer was going to look to her to repo the car, not DH. So what we did was, since we were about to deploy anyways, he brought that crap jeep right back to her and left it. It got repossessed under her name LOL

QueenBeau's picture

DH is my 1st marriage. I did have a boyfriend I dated for about 3 years, my first 'adult' relationship. He was a liar. He told me he was in college & had a job. I was going to another university & never thought to fact check him. We started dating at thee nd of my sr year of highschool so being the rebel I was I would 'skip school' & go hang with him. I would think he was skipping his college lectures. A few times we got caught & I couldn't leave & I would call & tell him & he would basically chew me out saying he had already missed classes & I was going to ruin his future blah blah blah. I mean really had me crying and shit.

when we broke up years later, I found out he was never going to college. Never even enrolled. I should have broken up with him when he first started that emotional abuse. That was the least of it.

& BM, according to DH (& his friends) she told him on his 21st birthday that her mom shot herself in the face to get him to keep SD (then an infant). Her sister was in on the lie. They just had a hoot laughing it up at him behind his back for God knows how long. Then he saw her mom about 6 months later, BM is all "don't say anything about her face she's really self conscious blah blah blah". Her face was just fine. BM never admitted it was a lie.

WTF...REALLY's picture

My ex?

Well, lied about paying taxes on land we owned. Never did pay and I got a surprise two week notice of an auction. Had to come up with cash fast to save the land.

Lied about paying taxes on his construction business. After the divorce, his tax guy tried to get me to sign a paper that attached me to his 450,00.00 tax debt. Had a cow, called the IRS and they explained to me, no, do not sign, you owe nothing.

Then they told me to back file married filling separately to get caught up on my taxes. I got a 2000.00 refund. Lol Ex was shocked he could not trick me.

There's more, cc I did not know about with my name on them.

He is such a fuckin loser.

zerostepdrama's picture

That actually reminded me of a story.

When Ex and I split up we did 50/50 with BS. We had to pay if we wanted BS in full day Kindergarten, so Ex paid that and I paid afterschool care. They were almost the same amount.

End of the year I find out that he hadn't been paying the Kindergarten fee. So I ended up having to pay it before I could get BS's records transferred when we moved out of the school district, when I bought our house.

Then come to find out later was that his mom had been giving him the money for the Kindergarten payment and he was just blowing it on himself.

It ended up being like $1500 I had to pay.

It was such a shitty thing for him to do to me on top of all the other shitty stuff he had did up to that point. But I wasn't really surprised.

StepKat's picture

Grrrr! That dude should be hung up by his toes over a bit of hungry alligators and made to beg for his life!!!

Red_panda7's picture

Oh I just have to add this one last tidbit he never the entire duration of our marriage paid taxes. (partly because he didn't work) I always filed married but separate and he always took my refund. and never NEVER claimed my son. This year I have a judges order which says now he can't. Which now he wants to fight because now he can get caught for not having filed.

(I don't talk about the teribble things he's done to me physically)