Sd15 had the stomache bug last week. at some point princess shit her freakin pants. it was snow days and i was at work. but i walked into her room and it stunk like hell. I told dh how much it bothered me we have other people in the house. it unhygenic. gross, unhealthy. i went on and on. Dh told her to wash them. grandmother told her to wash them. i said princess this is gross im done dealing with it. well Its Tuesday morning. this happened last wednesday. IM DONE. Dh obviously didnt deal with it. I went in with gloves. told dh and princess to come outside. i had her dirty clothes basket. i handed it to princess and said its garbage day take it to the garbage. she and DH didn't like that. I said so listen here. "I have young kids and myself to think about. and if you refuse to do something it will be dealt with like this. I don't want to be grossed out when i come home i don't want to be frustrated with you all the time. and if i threw away some of your nice clothes so be it. if you have to waash your clothes more often so be it. im not allowing unhealthy things in my home. around me or my boys. you can throw a fit. but this is how its going to be. and its done its over not another word around me about this incident becuase it pisses me off and i will go off on you!" I walked back in the house and wanted to break something. SO on top of this...PRINCESS IS GROSS. WEARS DIRTY CLOTHES ALL THE FREAKIN TIME DOESN'T TAKE SHOWERS. SHE HADN'T TAKEN A SHOWER SINCE THURSDAY! I CAN'T LIVE LIKE THAT. how do these people do it!