So sgs21 is currently sporting a 1.09 gpa. Until he can show improvement dh and I will not be paying tuition. We know why he got in deep. He had his very first gf and then she dumped him. He didn't know how to handle it. Not an excuse to fail everything. He was carrying 9hrs and working 14 hours a week with dh and 20hra or less at another job. And he lives with us. So he got room and board and tuition provided he worked weekends with dh and maintained a "c".

He can continue to stay and work w/dh and his other gig, pay his own tuition. He can do the work, he just didn't.

So in trying to talk to his moty over his situation I got 1) poor widdle boy, he's overwhelmed, 2) he shouldn't work with dh and then she hung up after a long ass diatribe from her about her other kids not liking their speech teacher and that's a good excuse not to go to class.

I'm gobsmacked and pissed. Dh always warned me not to get involved with his evil spawn. His words cleaned up.

I used to regularly carry 20+ hours and work 40+hrs so his overwhelmed doesn't cut it for me.