You are here

Bm has yet to respond to being served...

msg1986's picture

So Bm was served 11/26 and the lawyer is still waiting for a response... She did post on FB that she's in "desperate" need a lawyer that "doesn't cost a lot of money" but we'll see if she takes action on that. Now now, before I get any flack, I don't usually look at her social media things but I've been keeping an eye because Dh is going to court and Bm is the type of person to put every.single.thing on Fb. The nice thing is that Dh's lawyer is writing up the proposed parenting plan because they think she won't respond and they'll be ready to give the judge the plan he's requesting and fingers crossed, it'll just a shoo-in. It might not happen but hey, positive vibes, right? Smile

In other news, Bm was in the hopsital last weekend because apparently her esophagus tore and she had GI bleeding. I feel a little bad that Dh is taking her to court while she has these issues going on but she's always at the hospital because she always thinks she's sick (this time she really was sick) so if not now, when?

We also made our first appearence as a family for Ss's school recital. It was nice. Bm acted as though Dd and I didn't exist but whatever. I met Bm's boyfriend, he came up and shook my hand and introduced himself-real nice guy. Even Bm's parents came over to say hi and talked with Dd. All of Bm's peeps being so nice and friendly made her stink face and crap attitude even more awkward.

Wow, fun times! lol.

Comments

WTF...REALLY's picture

Its nice that everyone was being kind at the social recital. Its always better to try to get along.

When DH served BM, she never responded. So he got all he requested at court. Full legal and physical custody. Court took all of ten minutes.

msg1986's picture

I know! Before the recital, I thought maybe it's me, maybe I've building it up in my head that Bm has an issue with me but nope, she really does. When we got there I looked at her and smiled and it was as though I was invisable. She spoke briefly to Dh but didn't look at me or Dd-and that's fine, I don't need her acknowledgement but it was very clear that she was bothered that I was there. Whatev's though, we were there for Ss and that's all that matters.

Geez, fingers crossed that's will happen here. I'm not holding my breath but hopefully! Smile

msg1986's picture

Oh yeah, I'm not holding not my breath! lol! I won't be at ease until that court order is in Dh's hands... and even then I will probably still not be at ease because we all know CO's don't solve everything, just help ease the blows lol.