We have a restraining order set in place for BM. So she had one of her cousins contact DH. He let us know that BM would have the kids this year. They alternate holidays and this year is DH's per court order. DH let the cousin know this. He just kept telling DH "That's to bad, oh well, they need to spend Christmas with their mom". DH warned him that if anyone shows up at this house on Christmas they can wait for the police to arrive. We notified our police department. They told us to not even answer the door in the event that BM or her family shows up. Just keep the court order handy and wait for an officer to arrive.

I just really hope BM doesn't ruin Christmas especially for the boys. She gets them the very next day so why is she trying to start crap. I just want to put my boot to her face so bad.