OH just called me, said he had had enough and that he was done....

I asked what happened....he said he spoke to SS19 about whats gone on and what BM has said.....so SS19 feeling like the "crap dad" routine isnt working decided to use MY UNBORN BABY TO MAKE HIS DAD FEEL GUILTY INSTEAD!!!!!!!!!! :jawdrop:

All because of a comment I passed last night whilst watching telly!! lol F*CKING PATHETIC!!..The comment? It was an advert, were some mates sit for an entire weekend eating takeaways and watching DVDs...OH said he would love to do that..I laughed and said "why do you think Im looking forward to maternity leave!? I cant wait to finish before baby born cos then its two weeks of empty house just me chilling and watching telly. Total Bliss!!"...thats was what sparked SS19 off....

SS19 said he feels he is being "pushed" cos of the new baby.....said that he feels daddy not paying the same attention....OH pulled big style, told him to get a grip then reminded SS19 that early this year Oh spoke to ALL his kids about the possibility of him having another baby (which is what led me to post on this site in the first place!)....OH said that he spoke in depth and asked them questions and encouraged them all to ask and be honest too...and that ALL were delighted and excited about the prospect....

So then...SS19 said " but STRESSEDSTEP IS PUSHING ME OUT TOO! SHE ISNT THE SAME WITH ME ANYMORE NOW SHE IS HAVING ANOTHER BABY!!!".... :jawdrop:

NEWSFLASH SS19...IM NOT YOU DAMN F*CKING MOTHER TO PUSH YOU OUT!!!!

Which, is what OH told SS19!!...Oh told SS19 that....

"at the end of the day, stressedstep isnt your mom, she is MY missus, she only needs to concentrate on her BD7 and the baby she is carrying, not you or SS17...yet she CHOSE to do that!! Not once has stressedstep ever said she doesnt want you there, after everything you have both said and done over the years, not once. She has done, on your own admission SS19, more for you than your own mother has!! Yet your own mom has refused to have you!"

OH ended the conversation with SS19 by saying "if you dont wanna live with me, then dont...Im not bothered anymore!"

So, my head is yes ovrloaded with his pathetic attempt at using my babay as a defence.....but my head is also somewhere else...like, if my comment of "two weeks on my own chilling" sparked things off, HOW LONG WAS SS19 EXPECTING TO STAY ON THE SOFA? AND IF NOT THE SOFA, WAS HE EXPECTING TO SLEEP IN MY BABYS ROOM WHEN IT WAS FINISHED? :jawdrop:

Must remember to ask OH that!!