DH blocked BM's number like 1 1/2 years ago due to her sending verbally abusive texts. It's been NICE to not have to deal with her.

Yesterday DH gets a call and picks it up. It's from a different number. It's BM. She starts cussing out DH that he missed OSD's birthday the day before. He said he told her "Get a life" and hung up.

So then she sends a text something like "I have a life. You are a piece of shit. The world's worse father. You are the scum of the earth. You do nothing and have nothing and have a wife you don't even love."

DH is good and doesnt respond back and that number is going to be blocked as well.

Not going to lie- I really really wanted to text back and tell her about herself. Is he the world's greatest dad- no. But is she the world greatest mom- no. If it wasnt for him, SS wouldnt have a working car (since DH is always there fixing SS's cars that he wrecks and messes up). If it wasnt for him MSD wouldnt have the apartment that he helped her move into (After BM kicked her out) and all the stuff for the apartment- furniture, W/D, etc.

As for her last line- it's all the complete opposite and just shows her insecurities. To even compare DH and BM is like comparing Filet Mignon (DH) to a hotdog (BM). It's pointless.

Of course I am not going to feed into her bs. It just goes to show she is still the same person.

As for DH "Missing" OSD's birthday. OSD turned 22. She is a married adult with 2 kids.

DH sent her a message on FB. She's weird and has 3 FB accounts. (Why- I have no idea) So they are like OSD maiden name, OSD middle name, OSD married name. The OSD married name is the one that she uses the most. DH posted her a message on OSD maiden name.

Knowing my DH, I know for a fact that he doesnt realize she has 3 FBs and that he posted to the "wrong one".

I did ask him why he didnt call her? He said "She posts everything to FB, she is on it all day, I didnt think it was any different."

I dont agree with this, I think he should have called her but they have a weird relationship. She didnt even tell him when she was getting married nor invited him to her wedding! She came to town last winter and made plans with DH and then blew him off. She came to town this summer and spent the whole time with BM and her family and never even let him know she was in town until the day she was leaving.

Regardless, not sure why BM feels the need to say anything to DH about it. If OSD has an issue, she is an adult and can talk to DH about it herself instead of running and crying to her mommmmyyy about it.