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sheltojl's picture

Submitted by sheltojl on Tue, 11/18/2014 - 5:48pm

So another day of complaining to the girls dad about not listening... I left the room and went upstairs. He come in and starts in with because I was upset with the way his daughter said something... I was more pissed off with the fact they didn't do anything I asked and he didn't back me up. I explain what upsets me and he whispers pyscho..so I could hear it.. he said this because I recently had the arm implant birth controm. I said maybe I should just take my self out of the situation .. his reply do what you need to do.

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Shaman29's picture

Submitted by Shaman29 on Tue, 11/18/2014 - 6:09pm

He called you a psycho because you're upset with him when he failed to back you up in front of his daughters?

I sincerely hope by taking yourself out of the situation, you meant dumping his dumb ass.

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Submitted by twoviewpoints on Tue, 11/18/2014 - 6:52pm

Sheltojl, your boyfriend doesn't have the same parenting standards and expectations that you do. You're fighting a losing battle if you think talking and talking and talking to him is going to change that.

Yes, he's being a a**. But he's telling you that he doesn't think all these things (whatever the things you keep getting upset about or the skids are doing to disrespect you) is a big deal to him. He thinks you're being a crazy whiner making mountains out of thin air. You can talk to him and try to make him understand until you're blue in the face...bottomline he doesn't agree with you and he doesn't want to stand up and parent his own kids and be the father he's suppose to be. He just got these kids fulltime this summer. He's not the one doing all the daily caretaking and parenting. He's leaving you to handle it then getting angry when make a fuss out of what he considers nothing. He honesty thinks you're just out to make trouble and complaining about everything.

He wants you to be his cook, maid and babysitter (besides his bedmate) and he wants you to just let his kids say/do whatever it is they are saying and doing. You're daily complaining to him is wearing thin and he is now indicating to you by the psycho name naming that you're the problem and you expect too much from his kids. Of course, that's not the truth. You're not psycho and his kids are treating you like dirt.

The issue now is , what are you going to do about it.

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Tue, 11/18/2014 - 7:20pm

Okay...I just read a few of your other blogs to refresh my memory of your situation.

Just what exactly is this fucker BF bringing to the table in this relationship? Because from an outsiders' perspective, it seems like he offers you absolutely nothing in life or love.