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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Wed, 10/29/2014 - 8:55am

So my SD24 and her bf got in an argument about him not looking for work. They live 2 hours away, and she's always telling him to "Get Out" whenever they get into an argument, so on Monday he actually packed up his stuff left. Not to mention that her dumb ass is 2 months pregnant by him, plus the 5 year old she already has. Of course when he left she calls DW freaking out talking about how she doesn't know how she's going to do it on her own...blah blah blah. She's too lazy to get a job as well. The boyfriend moved back here to our area, and lives a 5 minute drive away.

My DW was silly enough to co-sign for her, and they just moved into their place back in August. They had to borrow money from a charity to pay September's rent, and haven't paid October's rent. SD24 called my wife crying again yesterday talking about she doesn't know what to do. The apt complex told her if she doesn't move out by this Monday they are going to take her to court, which would of course ruin DW's credit. DW told her to stay there till the end of the week, as we have an adult Halloween party we are hosting at our house, and we'll get her on the weekend.

What does her dumb ass do? Get one of her sisters to drive down and get her, and they arrived at our house last night. I am so sick of her dumb ass just doing whatever the hell she wants to do without regard for anyone else. Now we will have to scramble to find a place for her to stay this weekend, or cancel our party. We told her also that her lazy ass ex-boyfriend is not allowed at our house, but I KNOW the only reason she wanted to come back right away was so she can be up in her ex's ass again since he lives so close. We have warned her that if he's hanging out at our house she might as well leave now.

This is actually supposed to be a happy time for me as I found out last Monday that I passed my last college course and I'm officially a college graduate. Right now I am literally sick to my stomach at the thought of having to put up with SD24 in our house, and basically having to raise her son because she's so damn lazy. Looks like I won't be shredding tears of anger as I walk across the graduation stage.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 10/29/2014 - 8:58am

NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! but unfortunately so damned predictable.

So sorry, it will truly never end with her. Sad

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 10/29/2014 - 9:23am

She'll never grow up if her mom keeps bailing her out.

Unfortunately his DW is probably one of the worst offenders I have ever seen around here. If this girl says jump, mommy says not only how high, but can I wipe your ass too? The ADULT is 24, no way is anything going to change, other than Frustrated and DW will probably end up with custody of not only a 5 year old, but a new born.

SD24 is a worthless piece of trash, the kind that should NOT be allowed to procreate.

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Wed, 10/29/2014 - 9:50am

Step parenting is like a "choose your own adventure" book because no matter what page you turn to the ending is ALWAYS your untimely demise and destruction.

This is quite literally the best signature EVER!!!

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Wed, 10/29/2014 - 9:58am

Thanks for all your comments. I really am sitting here at work sick to my stomach at the thought of going home and seeing SD24 laying on my couch while the grandson runs around destroying our house. I wasn't even able to sleep last night.

I am coming to the sad realization that no matter what SD24 or DW says, things will NEVER change. I am tired of my hard earned money going to support lazy ass ADULTS who can't pull their own heads out of their ass, while they continue to collect welfare.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 10/29/2014 - 10:10am

If she's only 2 months preggo can she go back to stripping for a few months??

My heart breaks for your grandson and this baby in the oven. What the fuck is wrong with these loser ass women (and men) who just keep having babies when they clearly can't take care of the one(s) they already have? Sad

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Wed, 10/29/2014 - 12:36pm

When we drove down to pick her up one weekend for one of her stupid dr visits (I say stupid because it makes no sense to drive 4 hours round-trip when there are doctors where she lives) she was supposed to strip and make money that weekend. Of course her lazy ass did it for one afternoon the whole weekend and that was it.

DW is supposed to demand that she get a job, and is telling me how things will be different this time but I pretty much just tune her out because I know it won't change anything. Wash, rinse, repeat.

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Wed, 10/29/2014 - 12:39pm

Sweet Pea the only reason I'm putting up with it is because my wife's favorite uncle passed away earlier this summer. He was such a kind and loving person, and would never turn away any family member or friend who was in need of help or a place to stay.

I told her that in the spirit of her uncle's memory, I will try to be "kinder" when it comes to the stepkids. This is SD24's absolute LAST chance.

With that being said, I've already gone to the bank and I now have a little amount from each paycheck deposited into this account just in case I need to move.