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Ex needs to tuck his crazy back in, it's showing!

Sweet T's picture

So BS7 is starting thereapy as he has had some post divorce issues that IMO were accerbated by ex dragging his GF of 6 weeks on their vacation and then breaking up 2 weeks later.

At the first session last Wednesday infront of BS he tells the therapist that he doesn't trust me and that I had him arrested. So therapist schedules the 2 of us to come in for a parent meeting on the 1st. On Friday he seemed to forget that he hates me and texts me and asks me to make him a vegetarian Lasagna for a pot luck on Monday. I text back and tell him to try Stoffers.

Sunday he calls demanding that he get Wed nites which is not in the decree. He thinks that is why BS is acting out and that we do not need to go to therapy if I let him have that time. I say no he gets angry and fights with me. Tells me he is done paying CS and that he will never see BS again and he hopes me and my BF like having a 7 year old around all the time and hangs up.

Last night he texts and says that I said he only calls when he wants something, but I only let BS call him when he is being bad and he gets to be the heavy, ( that happened twice ). BS is to call him twice a week but the days are not specific. I was waiting to see what he was going to do. BS's therapist and everyone I know told me that I can't give in or it will never end. BS will call him this afternoon before therapy for their call.

I swear this lunatic is never gonna give up. The nice thing is that the man I have been dating is really supportive and has good advice. He keeps telling me that his people specialize in cement shoes Smile

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misSTEP's picture

YES - written communication ONLY. Never ever ever talk to this guy without a third party around. He will try like hell to get you on the phone when he is talking to BS. You have to be FIRM.

Once one of my skids was talking with BM and then turned and said, "Mom wants to talk to you daddy." DH took the phone and hung up without even asking her what she wanted. }:)