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Submitted by Art36 on Sat, 09/06/2014 - 4:27am

We went to drop off my SD to her father. This dude walk outside with no shirt. Trying to look like a badass. I'm like whatever. He walks to the car. I'm in passenger. He says nothing to me I say nothing to him.He see's my wife he picks up my SD. Talks to her for a little. Then we drive off., Later he tells my wife to not feed her before we bring her because she Dosnt eat dinner when we drop her off. I tell my wife screw him. We drop her off at 6pm my SD is 3 she needs to eat. She tells me she don't want to start problems with him. I tell her well what ever you decide I'm with you. But screw that he is full of it to think I'm not going to feed her

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Sat, 09/06/2014 - 7:55am

If dad wants to provide dinner, then that's one less thing mom has to deal with. She could simply give the kid a light snack and she'll be fine until dad gives her dinner.

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Submitted by Maxwell09 on Sat, 09/06/2014 - 6:01pm

My Stepson is 3 also and he doesn't usually eat before pickup on Friday Diablo and he usually doesn't want to eat when he gets back home on Sunday (6). We usually eat around 5pm because DH goes to work at 5:15 except on Pick/Drop off days then he waits until SS is gone/home before he goes into work. Its not a big deal at 3 the kids are loud and proud to tell you when they are hungry. Personally I think BM lets him just graze constantly over there based on his return habits but what can ya do? Its best to just say "sure thing" and either do what he asks or do what you want.

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Submitted by Art36 on Sat, 09/06/2014 - 11:33pm

Yeah her dinner time with us is at 5. My dw said okay. As most of of you posted she will give her a snack. The main reason this upseted me so much. Was 2 months ago BF (baby's father) was investagated by CPs. When they went to his house that we had been stoping her off. They found that there was no food in the house. Bit one can of bake beans(what is most unsettling he makes about $20 a hour. Lives on family land rent free) there was windows broken. His house on a compound type where there is a big gate but he never let us in. Cps ask him how dose she eat if there is no food. He said he goes to his mothers house to eat. So that is why it was a big deal to me..

CPS is doing ongoing investigations. That's why I got bent out of shape about her eating. As well when she would come home from his house she would be really hungry and eat a lot the day before we drop her off. At the time I took it as her frowning and needing to eat a lot. I try to stay out of my dw and her BD stuff about the baby. I tell my wife I support her no matter what. But I just needed to rant.

But as I thought to my self it takes a lot for Cps to do something. But anyways thank you guys for some helpful suggestions