So BM doesn't have full custody b/c she is an idiot. She loves to bash me and DH CONSTANTLY. The kids finally see that what she says is NOT true about us and are questioning HER as to why she is doing this? Which is still our fault, by the way. But it's especially nice that SD14 sees her moms true colors. We don't and didn't ask the skids about their BM. We don't CARE. She can't keep her nose out of our business. It's just truly refreshing that they see FINALLY the nut she is and that we have been sane/balanced/truthful this whole time. Keep up the good work BM, the kids think YOU are the one with all the damn issues. (which has been true the whole time)