I am tired of the drama today. I was trying to be nice and offered SSstb11 a brand new iPhone5. He looked at me like I was crazy and said No I only want an iPhone5s. I said then you can wait for one of your parents to buy it for you.
DH got all protective and said well why does BS14 get to have an iPhone 5s after he let his iPhone 5 get run over? So I say ummm....because BS14 paid for it with his own money! DH already knew that but if he's going to play state the obvious, so will I. The entire reason I have a free iPhone 5 is that it's the replacement because I had BS14's phone insured. BS14 didn't want to wait for the replacement to come, he bought a new iPhone5s with his own money so now the replacement is here and I offered it to SSstb11, who currently has a verrryyyy old phone. Yes BS14 was irresponsible with his phone, but since he bought his own replacement, what is there to talk about?

Then DH changed targets and says well why are you making a big deal out of buying him an iPhone 5s when you paid ADstb21's cell phone bill this month? So I say ummm....cause I offered SS a very nice phone for free out of the kindness of my heart and he acted like a spoiled brat. You or BM feel free to buy him an iphone 5s if you want to. DH says I just don't see how you can enable an adult but won't buy a child the phone he wants. What kind of 21 year old needs her mommy to pay her bills anyway? I got pissed at that point because DH is talking shit about AD in front of BS14 and SSstb11. So I said well why don't you quit worrying about what bills I paid of AD's and start worrying about when you can pay me back for your half of the bills that I had to pay the last two months since your business barely made payroll? Or the when you can pay me back the money I loaned you to cover some of your business expenses?
DH looked like I slapped him and walked out of the house. You know, I realize that was a bitchy thing to say,especially in front of the boys, but I never pretended to be anything else. And when you make fun of my kid in front of me and my other kid, you better be ready to take it as well as you dish it out. If you can't, keep your mouth shut!