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Submitted by Lady Sav on Fri, 06/27/2014 - 3:10am

I just want to say thank you to every single person that commented on my previous post.

I have never slept more peacefully!
I took all your advice, I blocked BM on all possible social media and I have decided to just let it go, I was ranting about how I feel robbed when it’s clear every that I rob myself of happiness everyday by worrying about the future and crying for possibilities!
You guys have really helped me in trying to take control of my life again, and I’m so grateful.
I know that most of it I’ve brought on myself. But I don’t think people realize how hard it is…. Everyone around me tells me to push H to have a relationship with SS; I mean according to everyone why this should even be hard for me. I feel like a teenager that’s being emotionally over dramatic.
But like I said I’m moving forward, I’m actually going to be selfish and forget about this and starting thinking about myself.
I just can’t say thank you enough for being the support that I usually only get from my husband.

Have a beautiful day! 

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Submitted by Lady Sav on Fri, 06/27/2014 - 10:22am

Sweet pea, i fully agree, i think thats its been too much time worrying about the future when i have no clue whats going to happen anyway. i appreciate the advice.
Its just sp nice to be able to vent without judgement for a change!

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Submitted by Lady Sav on Fri, 06/27/2014 - 10:25am

I have to admit some posts are really funny, and others are really scary! Like if thats what im missing i think maybe i'll just leave it this way! i'll def be staying here! It feels like a good home!

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Submitted by JingerVZ on Fri, 06/27/2014 - 6:46am

Stick around Lady Sav, this is a good place. People understand.
Most importantly take care of you and DH. Agree with Sally, you are dodging a bullet on the kid - leave it with Mmmmuuuummmyyy.

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Submitted by Lady Sav on Fri, 06/27/2014 - 10:26am

Thanks JingerVZ!

Are you kidding? of cause i wont be leaving! i can vent here, be myself and no one thinks im a heartless bitch!

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Submitted by misSTEP on Fri, 06/27/2014 - 8:17am

Or you could just tell them, "I am not codependent and do not meddle in other peoples' relationships" with a nice smile on your face, of course.

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Submitted by Lady Sav on Fri, 06/27/2014 - 10:28am

SCREW THEM!
I just realised i dont even have to answer them.
It has jack shit to do with them right?
If i want to enjoy having DH all to myself, why cant i? im entitled to happiness, arent i?

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Submitted by Lady Sav on Fri, 06/27/2014 - 10:31am

Everybody around me, makes me feel selfish for not pushing DH harder and you know what im allowed to be!
Im newly married, to an amazing man, i supported him in everyway with this battle, but if he is sayin enough is enough... surely i can let it go and enjoy the silence?

Ripley, i have to admit after reading your comment on my last post i knew i had come to the right place. Thank you!

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Submitted by hereiam on Fri, 06/27/2014 - 10:44am

Everybody around me, makes me feel selfish for not pushing DH harder

It is absolutely none of their business. Perhaps they'd like to finance the fight? Or make the trips to court? Or deal with the bitch of a BM?

Only you and your husband know what you are dealing with. You know what you have already done and what it has cost you emotionally and financially. Don't listen to everybody else, it's not their fight and they have no idea what they would really do in the same situation.