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The most evil spawn in the world

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Submitted by sixteensmom on Thu, 05/15/2014 - 1:44am

Grandmother passed away from a short illness last week. skids have not even acknowledged this, nor sent a text, card or fb post saying hey sorry. it's very obvious, has been in every paper, online, fb, etc. and we know they spy on us and so does bm so there's no chance they just didn't know... until 18mo ago there was a relationship and some good times, a little love here and there until their bm told them not to... what a pity the hatred that can be bred into ADULT children by an evil hateful bm. My heart hurts for what they'll someday regret. skids are 22, 25, 29

hateful spawn of satan.

this was the final straw. they are all dead to me now.

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SecondGeneration's picture

Submitted by SecondGeneration on Thu, 05/15/2014 - 5:43am

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I dont think theres anything more I can say Sad *hugs*

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Submitted by sixteensmom on Thu, 05/15/2014 - 12:54pm

I know for certain they spy. it's their grandmother. every single day there is a new post on their wall referring to something I said on mine. (I spy too)

dh will not contact them. he refuses to chase them anymore. after the past 18mo of their idiocy he's written them off but STILL... not a word to say hey sorry? man.

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Thu, 05/15/2014 - 7:32am

I'm sure I will get flamed.... but if the OP is an adult, then her GMa would be quite aged. While it is always a loss to lose a loved one, your GMa was YOUR loved one. Not theirs. Honestly, did the stepkids even know her name? Had they ever met her more than once or twice at a cook out or holiday?

I couldn't even tell you my OWN MOTHERS grandmothers name. I think you are expecting a bit much here for Skids to make a big to-do over their step moms elderly grandmother passing away.

To me, appropriate would be an "Oh I'm sorry to hear that" the next time they saw you. It sounds like you expected them to be sending flowers and mourning. That doesn't seem reasonable.

Edited to add: it is also possible they do not know, and you shouldn't be assuming that they do know if this is so important to you to deem them "dead to you". If it is that important, then share it with them and if they don't care THEN they can be dead to you.

Also, I'm sorry for your loss.

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Submitted by sixteensmom on Thu, 05/15/2014 - 1:42pm

it was their own grandmother who passed quite young.
it pains me to see the hurt on my dh face.
I only expected some normal compassion from them, a note, a text? a fb post? some acknowledgement for him.
nothing.

but you're right. I expect too much.

no flaming.

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Submitted by Frustr8d1 on Thu, 05/15/2014 - 8:54am

Not to mention that bad people can come from good parents. I've seen the best of parents end up with their own kids deciding to grow into bad people.

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Submitted by sixteensmom on Thu, 05/15/2014 - 1:49pm

thanks for your comments. I do appreciate all of your perspectives.

she was a wonderful caring selfless person who accepted me and my children into her family immediately.
since skids chose to go 'to the other side' out of the blue 18mo ago or so, they've not contacted her at all.
I'm very happy my kids considered her a gma and were there with her her final days and have been with dh and I through the ordeal.

someday I believe her gkids will regret their lack of compassion.