Sgs20 lives with us. He's an alright kid. Dh agreed to put him thru college if he works for him in the shop. Plus I get a ready partner to go whitewater rafting. It works, for the most part.

He's 20, male, not big on house keeping. Can't see the floor for the crap. He's also deathly afraid of spiders.

So is it bad of me to tell him that it is spring, spider hatching weather, especially where there are places for them to hide like a messy room?

You should have seen his face. Room is clean.