bm's got ugly green eyes
Well Im just a bit peaved. I found out that I was expecting around the begining of February and Im extatic. Me and dh decided to keep it quite because I am high risk. So obviously I want to get out of the first trimester before we got everyones hopes up. Some how or the othet bm2 found out and has blasted OUR happy news to everyone in the pissiest way possible. It went a little something like this- "he cant pay his child support but he can buy his pregnant girlfriend a new laptop"! Ugh! First off- Shut your jealous mouth. Dh DOES pay his child support. I know. Im the one who puts the money orders in the mail. Sorry if its not the thousands of dollars you think your entitled to. Second- what we do with our money is our business. I work from home and take online classes and I NEEDED a new laptop. Which we got at a great deal because DH traded tattoo work fot the thing. So bitch it was free! Want to keep on? He got us a new tv too by trading tattoo work. Third- everyone is really happy we are having a baby. You just look jealous. But its not your place to go run and post this kind of garbage on facebook. Constantly trying to make him look bad and herself like some victim. Like I told my friend, whom I believe is the one who told her about me being pregnant, shes the one that wanted to be a single mom. Sorry it isnt exactly the life she thought it was going to be. Karma Is A Bitch. Shoulda kept your legs closed.
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you're due in February? I
you're due in February? I don't get it...
and does your DH/BF (not sure which) pay CS?
She found out she was
She found out she was pregnant in February Im assuming lol. I had to reread it too
Yes im due in October.
Yes im due in October. Sorry. I had to reread it too! Lol
Who cares what she says. Who
Who cares what she says. Who cares what she thinks. Just as long as you're doing the right thing, keep going.......
She is not worth getting stressed over. Or worrying about what she says.
I always tell my SO when BM is running her mouth. The people who matter don't believe her and everyone else doesn't care.
Im going to have to make this
Im going to have to make this a meditation!
TJH100911, Perfect reply -
TJH100911,
Perfect reply - exactly what I say to my FDH.
Dh. He does pay. I pick up
Dh. He does pay. I pick up the money order and send out the check. Its just her way of making herself the victim. She always post things on facebook that are lies. Like he doesnt feed, bathe or buy anything for the kids. Its to the point that anytime we buy anything for them, we take pictures and post it on fb. We take pictures of the kids eating and post them. Its that bad.
MIL takes screen shots of her
MIL takes screen shots of her post.
Window lickers!!! Oh my!!
Window lickers!!! Oh my!! }:)
LOLOLOL
I know who it is. I only told
I know who it is. I only told one person. I dont go near her page. My MIL is the one who told us what she had posted.
^^^^^THIS EXACTLY WORD FOR
^^^^^THIS EXACTLY WORD FOR WORD...
Also, congratulations!
Exactly!! You don't have time
Exactly!! You don't have time for this shit. You are high risk. And by posting what you buy SD on FB is just fueling the fire. Leave it alone!! You need to worry about you and your baby right now, not some crazy lunatic that is making your DH seem like a horrible guy.
Its harder than it sounds.
Its harder than it sounds. But believe me I try.
it is difficult... but once
it is difficult... but once you reach the point of indifference... it's so freaking liberating!
I dont post crap on fb. I
I dont post crap on fb. I hardly even open my acct. I find out these things through MIL.as far as how she gets her info, I know she hears things through the kids. They tell me everything their memaw and mom buys. So thats kind of unavoidable.
Thanks for the support and
Thanks for the support and advice ladies. It felt good to vent.
First of all, congrats on
First of all, congrats on your pregnancy. We are probably due around the same time! I found out I was pregnant a few weeks ago.
How did BM find out?
I understand not wanting her to know (I sure don't want BM knowing until... well never but we figure SD will tell her after she knows, at 12 weeks). Just ignore her - block her from FB & everything else. Who cares what she says. Enjoy your pregnancy & baby
I would try to avoid anyone who is feeding BM info. Like you being pregnant, who have you told? That's exciting news so I guess someone could slip & tell BM. But how does she know about your new laptop? Just seems weird.