How contentious is your situation?
On a scale of 1-10 10 being the highest possible amount of contention. Rate your custody situation.
Mine: 9.5 (supposing it can always get worse)
DH: 8
It sucks. Currently thinking of walking away. DH got an amazing job offer overseas. Sick of crap. Thinking if throwing in the towel. We both are. We won't tho. Both of us couldn't. But it's tempting. Cuz the exes make it horrid. And sometimes I think maybe ex would act better if he wasn't so focused on me and my life & trying to destroy me. 
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With MY ex... I think it's
With MY ex... I think it's safe to say zero, maybe a 1 lol SO and I are staying at his place for the night in a couple days.
Between SO and BM... 7. Things are starting to settle a little. Only because she won the last court round and got everything she wanted, so she's happy right now, which means less conflict.
Between SO and I. 9.5. It SUCKS!!
Y is it bad with u & honey?
Y is it bad with u & honey?
BM related crap, it's not so
BM related crap, it's not so much HER, I accept that she's a dumbass and always will be. But her shit has seriously infected mine and SO's r/s, pretty much every second day we have a big blow up that's somehow related to BM, it's starting to get bad, I'm thinking if we can't sort things out over vacation, then we should end it when we get back. *sigh.
Have you tried Dr Phil's
Between my DW and the
Between my DW and the SpermIdiot - 2.0 He is primarily not engaged with the SS though he does have visiation which he defaults to SpermGrandMa as he does everything else related to his 4 out of wedlock spawn by 3 different baby mamas. My SS is his eldest and our only.
Between my DW and SpermGrandMa - 7.5 When there was any interface at all it was brutally contentious but fortunately it was limited to about 3x per year so the contact time was not enough to make the score higher.
I have no BioSpawn including with my XW so for me - 1.0 since the XW is far far in the past though occassionally some drama will crop up related to my first marriage. When we were married and divorcing - 8.0. She was very explosive and would go from calm to errupting instantly.
SS is 21 no and there is no contact between my bride and I and the SpermClan. SS still deals with them occassionally but has learned that their toxic crap is not worth fostering a relationship with them.