Harboring Hate
And I hate it.
I'm not normally that kind of person. I just hate BM so much for what she's done to our family, and I can't let it go. I'm not the kind of person who holds a grudge, but I wish she didn't exist. I don't wish her dead, but I wish she just...wasn't, if that makes any sense.
I wish my DH had never met her. I wish she had told him the truth about the kid's paternity when he was born. I wish she'd take her husband and her (their?) brat and move back home (across the country) so we never have to see her again. One thing's for sure: I'll never open my heart to a child that isn't mine again.
I just wish someone, somewhere, would see her for who she is. She is pure evil. There's nothing but blackness where her soul should be. I work with criminals who are kinder than she ever fathomed being.
When the Zombie Apocalypse comes, the bitch is getting tripped.
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Darlin...You would not be
Darlin...You would not be normal if this cow did not bother you! I assume it will fade with time.
Edit to add...LOL at your last comment!
Thank you. I hope so. This
Thank you. I hope so. This isn't me. I hope dealing with all this crap hasn't changed me in some fundamental way.
Ya gotta laugh, right?
Zombies make me snicker. As long as I keep my sense of humor, I guess I might be okay. Geez, I seem to be more upset than DH, though. I guess maybe he's just over it because he's been dealing her. BM for 15 loooooooong years.
Nobody blames you for hating
Nobody blames you for hating BM. Certainly not me!
Someone out there likely does see through her phony baloney act. Or has at some other point in her life. You may not know that person.
I get it. I never thought
I get it. I never thought anyone could ever act the way Swamp Hole behaves. She has blamed me for everything in her life and I know that's because I got her number a long time ago. So I am her target. She has PAS'd DH's children from him, his custody time with SD has been suspended because the PAS was so bad. Swamp has nickel and dimed DH, refuses to pay her 35% of medical expenses and 50% extra curricular activities.
Swamp makes 85k, NOT working. She lives off the children's money. DH's CS, 43k of death bennies from the man she married to get the death bennies(9 month marriage, terminally ill with cancer) and Baby Daddy #2 CS.
Swamp continues to search for her next victim, aka: sugar daddy. I'm sure she will be looking to work the government to collect more money.
No one ever calls out the "elephant in the room" and see's her for what she is.
Thank you for your response.
Thank you for your response. And no, I NEVER underestimate the Nectar of the Gods that is wine!
I feel the exact same way...I
I feel the exact same way...I wish BM and her spawn would move faRRRRRRRRR away from here.....
We've been in counseling
We've been in counseling since before we got married. (I'm a therapist myself and believe in preemptive steps in blended family situations). We also are both martial artists, so funny you should recommend that! Hitting the bag and pretend it's BM really does relieve a lot of tension! }:)
Don't hate her. Just enjoy
Don't hate her. Just enjoy her pathetic state of less than human existance. Most importantly, she is evil and must be destroyed. Not physically (except in the event of the Zombie appocolypse) but in every other way possible.
This is exactly what I had to do with my Skid's SpermIdiot and SpermClan. They were toxic, manipulative toothless drooling morons and once I learned that there was no reasoning with them and they were incapable of being reasonable I set out in a systematic campaign to destroy them. Financially, socially and legally.
I turned barring idiot blended blended family opposition ass in to a sport. I am a 17 year (the duration of our CO) former Gold medalist in that sport and to this day they will not even utter a peep in my direction. Occassionally even now they will attempt to manipualte my Skid (SS-21)but he is well trained to deal with them and for the most part handles them very well these days. When he needs his mom and I to have his back a quick call to the SpermClan from either of us ends the crap in a hurry.
I suggest a comprehensive Destroy BM campaign. Use the facts and truth of the entire BM behavioral history and divorce/custody/visitation/support records to compile the weapons you need to do it.
And don't forget, have fun doing it.
IMHO of course.
Oh, it's definitely "when" no
Oh, it's definitely "when" no "if" about it!
And when it comes, I'll be the first one to find her. "Oopsie. You hadn't turned yet? Whoops. My bad. Sorry about that decapitation, sweetheart. " }:)