So my youngest SKID's boyfriend is on parole for getting into a bar fight a few years ago. He was affiliated with a gang at the time, so that's why he was in jail for a few months. He is now currently on parole. As part of his parole, he's supposed to find a job, but of course he hasn't even been looking for one.

Now by all accounts he seems to be a good guy, so I'm not throwing him under the bus here. He actually is the one that is currently raising our grandson, since SD23 really just isn't a responsible person. I will admit he actually does a good job of taking care of our grandson. So earlier this week he went to visit his parole officer and he got locked up because he no longer lives at the address he gave the police. They went by the address they had on file and they were informed he no longer lives there.

So my wife in all her wisdom told them they could use our address until he gets off parole in a few months. This bothers me for a few reasons.

1. He is NOT our responsibility. He is a grown ass man and he should figure out his
own mess. It's nothing personal against him at all.

2. I don't like being put in a position where I might have to lie to police on his behalf since he does NOT live with us.

3. I really don't want my address associated with any type of police record at all. I'm one of the few African-Americans in my neighborhood and I really don't want police cars randomly dropping by my house, especially because of his former gang affiliation.

Just what the hell was my wife thinking!?!?!? Am I overreacting?